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Do I tell him?
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Hihi
Ok, go easy on me, it's my first post! I've been reading the threads for ages but figured its time i join in......
My question goes out mainly to guys.... but girls as well......
Do you think it is important to tell the first person you have sex with that you are a virgin?
I am kinda getting to know this guy at the moment, and it seems a relationship is likely..... I have no doubt that when the time is right i will want to sleep with him..... I'm 18.... and i havent had sex before, not because i didnt want to, but because it just never happened......
so..... do i need to tell my new guy im a virgin? Girls.... if it were you would you tell? and guys...... would you want to know?
*The little one*
Ok, go easy on me, it's my first post! I've been reading the threads for ages but figured its time i join in......
My question goes out mainly to guys.... but girls as well......
Do you think it is important to tell the first person you have sex with that you are a virgin?
I am kinda getting to know this guy at the moment, and it seems a relationship is likely..... I have no doubt that when the time is right i will want to sleep with him..... I'm 18.... and i havent had sex before, not because i didnt want to, but because it just never happened......
so..... do i need to tell my new guy im a virgin? Girls.... if it were you would you tell? and guys...... would you want to know?
*The little one*
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or was it virgo :crazyeyes :crazyeyes :crazyeyes
It's better if he knows, because he'll realise you're inexperienced and also there are no secrets between you so you can feel far more comfortable.
1) is ift its your first time it may hurt slightly or you may even bleed slightly (perfectly normal). Being broken in as such, he could figure it out from this
2) You may seem less experienced and very anxious and nervous so you may not know what to do or how to going about doing it. This is where you may want to tell him- he'll will be more gentle and accomadating.
3) Dont worry about being a virgin a lot og guys actuyally like the idea of breaking in a virgin and is not something to be ashamed about
I didnt tell my first partner I was a virgin- (I know its different for fellas) but pretty much knew what i was doing and everything beforehand I was confident in.
I wouldnt tell him directly- maybe if you are playing around and its getting heavy tell him or if you happen to be on the subject. Dont just blurt it out! And good fucking :thumb:
Mr_Wobble
And there is nothin wrong with being a virgin, although im not a virgin im more ashamed of how i lost my virginity than if i still had it intact.
I'm a virgin and DAMN PROUD!!
Thankyou so much my lovelies........ It seems that every one is with the idea that its best to tell him........ so i will......... and i'll let you know how it goes!
Wish me luck!
*hugs n stuff*
*The lil one*
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