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theres A
He went out with B, and still really likes B. He met C, and he likes her loads too. But neither of them like him like that... ATM he somehow got into a situation going out with D, but D 'loves' A and A doesn't want to hurt D. Also, E, good friend of B and D fancies A. A just wants B! He's so happy thinking about her, and then there's C he can dream about her all day.
Give A your advice...
theres A
He went out with B, and still really likes B. He met C, and he likes her loads too. But neither of them like him like that... ATM he somehow got into a situation going out with D, but D 'loves' A and A doesn't want to hurt D. Also, E, good friend of B and D fancies A. A just wants B! He's so happy thinking about her, and then there's C he can dream about her all day.
Give A your advice...
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tell him go write a fucking song, then rip it up cus it won't fuckin fix the situation.
A doesn't like C 'Like that' and so A should forget C.
D really likes A but A doesn't feel the same about C so A should do the decent thing before it goes too far and tell D how he really feels.
A doesn't like E like that and getting her involved in the equation would just be A's attempt to hurt B to try to get her back (even though B doesn't really give a toss and would just like A to move on and stop fretting about
A should try to move on and find F - someone who loves him that he can love back. perhaps A should try to distance himself from B C D and E until A has sorted his head out!
dont be mean.
Decide who you do want , without hurting someone in the process
If you want my advice, A should forget all the girls because, in simple terms, A should like a girl, call her X, and X should like him back just as much. Easy, huh? Well, none of those situations are like that so none will work.
And A should definitely get out of the relationship with D soon, so as not to drag it out and eventually hurt her even more. Let her down gently, but tell the truth.
That's a lot of hurt letters of the alphabet. Don't do it.
Exactly. Especially forget about B. B has hurt A in the past, what makes A think that going out with B again will change anything?
Girl F is clearly not Girl B, C, D or E.
Simple.
I also recommend that you neither worry so much about it nor analyse it all in so much depth, neither of which will do you any good whatsoever.
:thumb: Couldn't agree more! Listen to Mobily, Rich!
one thing i've found out, it'll all sort itself out, none of us are gonna say go back to trying to get B cos she hurt you. also, do you really want D to feel as bad as B made you feel, dont string her along, sounds like you should go for C if she likes you too.
hope this helped, drop me a pm if it doesnt work out, will be happy to lend an ear
Anyways yes I am going to break up with D, it's a shame, I mean I really did like her but then 2 or 3 days into the relationship I realised it wasn't the same as what I had with B, and I really wanted what I had with B...
But C... she makes me smile
I find it really awful that you mess these girls around so much, but you should not, because they're humans with feelings and emotions and not toys that you can disguard at your pleasure. You have to be kind, fair and decent to them.
Live, laugh, love - but don't worry about it or analyse it too much.
If I wanted to, I could not worry that my relationship at the moment doesn't feel as 'right' as the one I had before, but then I am kinda stringing her along aren't I?
Then why not temporarily disassociate yourself from these women in a romantic capacity, whilst you fully get over Laura and know precisely what you want? There's little point rushing into a relationship, thereby causing heartache to women (as evidenced by your actions) and making yourself feel confused and uneasy.
Patience, as the phrase goes, is a virtue.
And Laura (or B or whatever you want to call her) being 'sympathetic' to your feelings for her isn't going to get her back, or help you in any way. A much better way of dealing with it would be to bury those feelings, step back a bit and distance yourself from her for a while, and see if a nice Girl F comes along. And if she doesn't then, well there's nothing wrong with being single!
The best way to find someone is to stop looking for them.
Yeah tell me about it! They won't bounce properly and then the string gets all tangled up and the loop gets too tight around your finger. And sometimes they even fly up and really hurt your hand. Stupid relationships.