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My mates problem
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I'm just about to finish with a guy who I have been mates with for a long time. Its not cuz of this but as he is my friend I think I shud tell him...
Things got heavy and I felt "bumps" on him. It was dark and I couldn't see what they were but I jsut pulled away from him and sed nothing. I don't know if what I felt was just his normal anatomy or something more. I mean surely you guys would notice and have it checked out right? Or wud he?
Should I tell him even tho it cud be the most awkward and possibly unneeded conversation ever?
Things got heavy and I felt "bumps" on him. It was dark and I couldn't see what they were but I jsut pulled away from him and sed nothing. I don't know if what I felt was just his normal anatomy or something more. I mean surely you guys would notice and have it checked out right? Or wud he?
Should I tell him even tho it cud be the most awkward and possibly unneeded conversation ever?
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You've found out our secret....
We've got balls down there!
No seriously tho the lumps were on his balls no where else-do you get lumpy balls? (My god I can't belive I typing this!!)
I mean I read all the stuff on the info part of the board but it didn't help!
I can't think how you could mention it.
I wouldn't go expecting a pleasant reaction from him though, no matter how you say it :eek2:
It seems like all the blokes I now don't know what safe sex is!! Gah!
They Don't do anything, non will they cause you any harm.
You could tell him, but WHY, it's not like he wont already know.
I've got that cartoon devil and angel on my shoulder at the mo!
About 3, kinda the size of acne sopts but definetly noticeable not the feel of a spot
And you'd think it be wise if he went to the doctors to have his bits checked out
(or GUM clinic!)
Other then that, there isn't much you can do without openly offending him
*Blokes don't like girls pointing stuff out about there dicks*
If he say anything about you having an STD then say he's got lumpy balls and small dick or whatever.
Just tell him that his balls are in your hands, and you can ruin his love life!;)
yup that could work
Probably.
All this makes me laugh. Some girl has got so het up about something so well not important.
I decided to be a wimp and let his next chick deal with it. If he asks why I didn't say I will pretend to have not noticed.
I didn't get really het up-I couldn't really talk to my mates-its kinda personal so you guys were my advice on the matter!
I decided to way up the risks that it was something against the risks that it wasn't and overall it came out that it was easier to leave it.