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if you know that one of your friends is cheating on her boyfriend should you tell him? even though you are better friends with your friend than her boyfriend (hope that makes sense)
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you could talk to the cheating friend though, see if you can get her to stop or at least pick one guy.
I do think you risk ruining your friendship with your female friend if you tell her bloke she is cheating, which is why it might be best to talk to her first. However, what she is doing is wrong, and if I were the male friend I too would want to know. It all depends how brave you are and whether you think you can justify and stand up for what you do in the end.
Can you live with yourself knowing that he is being hurt by your friend? Can you live without your female friend should it all come back to you?
Also, I don't agree that people should keep out of other people's realationships. I wouldn't want to be friends with someone who thought it was acceptable to cheat on their boyfriend!
if it had been me who was being cheated on i would want to know! it wud ruin my friendship if i knew a friend knew about it and didnt tell me!