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Tickling
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Ok, I would have put this in the relationships, but it's more related to the sex side of things. Whenever i try to tickle my girlfriend to get a giggle out of her, she just says, oh, noone can make me laugh, except my mum. or sometimes my dad. oh and all my old friends as well.
makes me feel unworthy. forget the word...
hmmm we have not had sex and dont plan to in the near future, its just one of those things we do to pass the time. i dont think anything i do to her even slightly sends a tingle down her spine. im close to giving up. i mean. grahhh. any advice?
makes me feel unworthy. forget the word...
hmmm we have not had sex and dont plan to in the near future, its just one of those things we do to pass the time. i dont think anything i do to her even slightly sends a tingle down her spine. im close to giving up. i mean. grahhh. any advice?
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See if she feels that, and ask her old man does it as well as you!
Or tickle her back, legs, or stroke her hair (some girls like that)
Thinking about it (which I'd rather not :yuck: ) my first kiss was actually the result of a tickle!
seems to me though that she doesnt respond well to physical contact with me
when i have asked her she said she isnt ticklish, only to aformentioned people (which is most people except me).
i manage to be able to tickle my sister and she almost explodes everytime so i think its my/lauras attitude towards the tickling that isnt doing it for her. ah well :crying:
(Try a feather on her body anyway)
Maybe she just isnt ticklish?
My ex used to tickle me, but anyone else does it it didnt work. Doesnt mean i dont love my family or whatever!
STOP OVER ANALYSING!!!
Closer to the point, it took me a while to react to any tickling my boyfriend tried on me, i think the nerves killed the tickles so try not to make her nervous by passing worrying vibes to her.
I agree - Chill will you ~
So what if you can't tickle her.... Sure it's nice if you can... but try not to make a big issue out of it.
Try tickling and therefore teasing her, very lightly - barely touching. Then again, she might just find that irritating.
Mr_Wobble