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Blowjob Query

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hiya okay I'm new here so I'll give you a background on myself my name's Jen. I'm 22-years-old and I live in Manchester. Okay now that's out the way let's get onto the serious stuff lol okay last night I was messing around with my boyfriend who's 18, I was giving him a handjob for absolutely what seemed like an eternity and he didn't cum however in a matter of minutes when I started giving him a blowjob he shot a dose of cum all up in my bed so my question is quite simple how can I go about giving him a decent blowjob (decent=over 5mins for me) without him cuming too quickly? I tried the whole pinch technique but it only worked 3 times before he cum so what can I do so he doesn't cum so quick?

Thanks in advance
Jen
xxx

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you're the blowjob queen, how come you're asking us for advice? :confused:;):p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why not go slower and have no rhyme or speed. that always works for me:mad: :o

    Or bite it:p

    that's right, you heard me.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, not pre-priming him with an 'eternal handjob' would probably help. :)

    Bear in mind that, (unless you are really bad at handjobs), the chances are its a psychological thing, the blowjob exciting his mind far more than the handjob. He'll probably last longer when he gets more accustomed to receiving oral if so.

    As harmless said, never settling into a rhythm will also help. Mix up what you do, so that you have things that will calm him down as well as things that get him going, and switch between them regularly 'til you're ready.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Blowjob Query
    Originally posted by Blowjob Queen
    so my question is quite simple how can I go about giving him a decent blowjob (decent=over 5mins for me) without him cuming too quickly?

    The answer is simple - do a search. This topic has been done LOADS of times. :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ya know i wonder if any new topics would be posted if we all constantly did searches - there surely can only be a limited number of sex topics that could feasibly be posted before they started over again? Anyway

    Whats wrong with being able to give good head? I dont understand? :eek2:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No I'm the blowjob queen ;)

    What I like to do is bring him right to the edge then slow down what your doing and start kissing him around that area, like teasing him, then go back to the real stuff again and when he's at that point again slow things down and ease off abit ;) Lasts longer, he gets to feel like he is gonna come loads of times, then when he does actually blow it will feel better for him cos of all the anticipation ;)

    I'm such a tease ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by angelbabe
    No I'm the blowjob queen ;)

    What I like to do is bring him right to the edge then slow down what your doing and start kissing him around that area, like teasing him, then go back to the real stuff again and when he's at that point again slow things down and ease off abit ;) Lasts longer, he gets to feel like he is gonna come loads of times, then when he does actually blow it will feel better for him cos of all the anticipation ;)

    I'm such a tease ;)

    What you actualy mean to say there is that you're such a meanie. :p

    You wouldn't want to do that for too long though would you? Wouldn't his *cough* balls start to ache a bit? *cough*
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Shukes


    What you actualy mean to say there is that you're such a meanie. :p

    You wouldn't want to do that for too long though would you? Wouldn't his *cough* balls start to ache a bit? *cough*
    your get blue balls just reading her stuff!:eek: ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've never had any complaints ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by angelbabe
    I've never had any complaints ;)

    Only because he's so scared of you I bet. :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Shukes


    Only because he's so scared of you I bet. :p

    From the sounds he makes and the look on his face I'd say otherwise ;)

    He's sat next to me now and says it's great :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by angelbabe


    From the sounds he makes and the look on his face I'd say otherwise ;)

    He's sat next to me now and says it's great :p

    WHAT?

    You two are in the same room together and you're not shagging? :eek:

    Oh and I'm sure it is great, but not if you did it to the poor guy for too long. :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ok bit too much detail i feel.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Shukes


    WHAT?

    You two are in the same room together and you're not shagging? :eek:

    Give them time, give them time:p :p:D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Harmless


    Give them time, give them time:p :p:D

    Hmm no wonder they've just dissapeared...

    Wow, I am now pretty certain they're having sex as we speak (or type). I don't know where they get the energy...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Shukes


    Hmm no wonder they've just dissapeared...

    Wow, I am now pretty certain they're having sex as we speak (or type). I don't know where they get the energy...

    We're back now ;)

    We didn't do anything, who do you think we are???? :D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by angelbabe
    We didn't do anything, who do you think we are???? :D

    Nymphomaniacs. :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by angelbabe


    We're back now ;)

    We didn't do anything, who do you think we are???? :D

    Yeah right, Adam got some Angel pussy pie methinks...lol:D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Harmless


    Yeah right, Adam got some Angel pussy pie methinks...lol:D

    ;)
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