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Dissapointed
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well....i met this guy on the internet (i dont make a habit of it) and we got on really well, he didnt have a photo at the time and we swapped numbers and every night since then we've spent like 3 hours on the fone 2 eachother. We told eachother we love eachother, but today he was supposed to meet me and so he put a foto on the net for me to see and he's really really really ugly.but i dont know wot to do cos i still love him but theres no attraction there and i told him that and didnt come down and i thought he was the one and hes got such a sexy voice, it doesnt go with his looks
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Sorry but you can't love someone without knowing what they look like. I am the least shallow person I know, so I am not being vain or anything, but sexual attraction is a huge part of being in love with someone in a sexual way. Perhaps you need to redefine your feelings for him. Don't string him along though.
That could be true.
But its a bit cold.
Yeah kinda shootin yourself in the foot really doing that aren't you.
"Well she says she loves me... time to send that photo I found on Ugly.com to scare her off."
True but if you only ever 'knew' them from chatting on the net or the phone it is different - you never really knew them.