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Girls = Slag Boys = Stud
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I know they have this on the home page, but i thought id see what people think about this subject. Why is it okay for men to sleep with as many women as they want, and get called a stud, but if a girl does it shes a slapper? This has always been one of two topics that annoys me. Your opinions pls :mad:
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lol soz my anger being taken out there.
s_m_b
Id rather look back when Im an old man and think that I had only slept with say 10 partners and had great sex than look back and think I slept wit 50 partners and hardly remember any of them because they were just conquests!
Butterfly00
Why is it okay for men to sleep with as many women as they want, and get called a stud, but if a girl does it shes a slapper
Who told you this? I think you may be working under some false assumptions.....
For a start "stud" and "slapper" are the male and female words for the same thing, and if you think one is good and one is bad then you really need to spend some time thinking about inconsistancys in your world-view.
Seems to me you actually have a problem with me, it general knowledge that a bloke gets called a stud if hes a slag, but a girl gets called a slag is she sleeps with a few men or has one nite stands, i think you need to lighten up a bit mate
People have called me a slag, in the past it used to really hurt but now I don't care, although it does piss me off.
A male friend called me easy a few weeks ago, but he does exactly the same things as me. I am single, I go out on dates, I snog people and SHOCK horror I have sex. But hey, he's a bloke, so it's ok for him to do that but I am a girl so I must be the spawn of the devil.
Who defines a slag anyway? Some people would say you're a slag just for having premarital sex, some would say a slag is someone who "sleeps around". How do you define it in numbers?
To me, somebody who is immoral is someone who doesn't use protection, lies to people by making out that they care about them when it is just sex.
In my opinion a person (male or female) who is SINGLE, protects themselves, and is HONEST, is doing nothing wrong.
Listen to Christina Aguelira's song, Can't Hold Me Down, on her new album, which is about these double standards.
Yeah me too. I don't think i'm a slag at all. So I may of had a couple of one night stands & slept with more people than most of my mates. So what. It's my body & as long as I keep myself safe & am not hurting anyone I don't see the problem.
Sorry, rant over.
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No, that wont happen from shagging too much, if the pussy tight, it'll stay tight (Maybe childbirth may turn it to 'bucket') but sex wont do that.
*Unless the dick is like.....er... really really big*;)
but even so, that wont make it into a "fat fanny"
(But sleeping around is bad girls, don't do it!)
Strange how boys don't like girls who "sleep around" but are generally only too keen to get girls into bed as quick as possible!
This might sound stupid to some people but i actually liked hearing bout my girlfriends past sexually. Not that she was a slapper or anything but just turned me on sometimes.
I know im strange.
Hehehe, With me? Nah!
I was joking, But a lot of girls do lie about how many people they slept with. (If them reports are to be believed)
they always claim that men sleep with X-amount of girls, whereas girls have fewer partners.
Either man are lying (Fairly possible) or women are. If men are sleeping around there needs to be equal (roughly) amount of women doing the same surely (They can't be banging the same one)
So if women are lying about it, surely you are ashamed of your actions then?!:p
It is true, from the blokes that I know anyway! (The ones that drink!)
If there single and lonely and want a shag, they will take anything that's on offer, and ugly birds seem to go the fastest because there is no effort involved, she not going to turn you down. (Sorry to be so blunt)
I've seen good looking blokes go with right 'dogs' all because they've had a drink, (The bottle can be your own worse emery at times) sure girls have done the same with ugly blokes.
and the fact that men are fertile all year round means that are bodies play a part in our sleeping around (Maybe not, but the only excuse I could think of)
I think it is more likely the blokes exagerate...
To the original question.
Yeah id say that was true. Lads who sleep around are called studs by their mates not really by girls tho. Girls are called slappers by both genders if they sleep around. hey that life, get over it because it really doesnt matter.
Now look at it from that perspective, who's the slapper?
I used to call girls who had a few sexual partners slags, that was before i had sex. i now relise that there is nothing wrong with havin a few sexual partners, and that girls are sometimes gagging for it aswell. so i know if i wasnt with my boyfriend i would probably sleep with a few blokes, cos sometimes you just need it bad!
i was called a slag at school! i have only ever kissed and had sex etc with one bloke........my boyfriend yet i was called a slag. i think it is just a way of people being nasty, and if the girl has slept with a few people others can use it as a way on insulting that person.
when i was younger my brother came home from being on the pull the night before, i over heard my dad sayin "did u shag her son???...........good on ya my son". then about a week later my sister was talking to her friend about a guy she pulled and slept with and my dad called her a dirty little tramp.
i also over heard my boyfriends mates outside today when i was in bed talking about girls they had pulled, and saying "oh yeah man she was really tight, which i was surprised at cos she is such a easy ho!" and talking about girls tightness depending on their sex lifes. and about easy "slappers" they had slepts with. so guys do call girls slags, and a lot of men (well my bf's mates atleast) dont have a lot of respect for women.
i personally say each to they own!!!! if you want to have an active sex life with different people, which ever sex you are. then go for it!!!
Same here.
Everyones a slag as far as im concerned. No gender barriers with me