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Frustrated. It just won't work!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Hello, how are you all? I'm new.

I'm male, but when I masturbate I can't orgasm. I heard that this is common among women, but I haven't ever heard of it happening to men.

I mean, I ejaculate fine, it's just the feeling isn't exactly mind-blowing: it just goes away!

I used to orgasm fine, but I'm unable to these days. I hope there isn't something medically wrong - could it be caused to stress? I'm a great worrier and often have things on my mind. Worrying about it not happening doesn't help matters!

Any ideas?

Comments

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Could easily be stress related.

    Do you have enough freedom to do it whenever you like or are you sometimes pushed for time, privacy and such?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Try not stressing and have a wank with some porn that you are into and just get everything out of your mind

    If that don't work, go see a doctor and he may send you to one of them people that deal with this sort of thing (Just don't worry about it)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sounds like you are thinking too negatively as you cum, just enjoy the moment as much as you can. Sometimes you'll get nothing, that just happens now and then. Try to focus on something you really sexually enjoy and go for it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Mist
    Could easily be stress related.

    Do you have enough freedom to do it whenever you like or are you sometimes pushed for time, privacy and such?


    Oh good - knowing that there's a good chance its psychological, does make me feel a lot better.

    Yeah, actually I do fit into that criteria, privacy is a rare thing around here... :mad:

    Thanks for your advice everyone - I'll try my best :D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Nostromo



    Oh good - knowing that there's a good chance its psychological, does make me feel a lot better.

    Yeah, actually I do fit into that criteria, privacy is a rare thing around here... :mad:

    Thanks for your advice everyone - I'll try my best :D

    The usual disclaimers apply of course, I'm not a doctor, if you consider that you might have a problem then go see your gp for a referal. Probably be better once you have more time to yourself, I expect.

    Try taking more showers.
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