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Frustrated. It just won't work!
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Hello, how are you all? I'm new.
I'm male, but when I masturbate I can't orgasm. I heard that this is common among women, but I haven't ever heard of it happening to men.
I mean, I ejaculate fine, it's just the feeling isn't exactly mind-blowing: it just goes away!
I used to orgasm fine, but I'm unable to these days. I hope there isn't something medically wrong - could it be caused to stress? I'm a great worrier and often have things on my mind. Worrying about it not happening doesn't help matters!
Any ideas?
I'm male, but when I masturbate I can't orgasm. I heard that this is common among women, but I haven't ever heard of it happening to men.
I mean, I ejaculate fine, it's just the feeling isn't exactly mind-blowing: it just goes away!
I used to orgasm fine, but I'm unable to these days. I hope there isn't something medically wrong - could it be caused to stress? I'm a great worrier and often have things on my mind. Worrying about it not happening doesn't help matters!
Any ideas?
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Do you have enough freedom to do it whenever you like or are you sometimes pushed for time, privacy and such?
If that don't work, go see a doctor and he may send you to one of them people that deal with this sort of thing (Just don't worry about it)
Oh good - knowing that there's a good chance its psychological, does make me feel a lot better.
Yeah, actually I do fit into that criteria, privacy is a rare thing around here... :mad:
Thanks for your advice everyone - I'll try my best
The usual disclaimers apply of course, I'm not a doctor, if you consider that you might have a problem then go see your gp for a referal. Probably be better once you have more time to yourself, I expect.
Try taking more showers.