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Good Idea?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
OK Im seeing this girl and we are very close and her mum and dad are going on hols soon and leaving her at home on her own. I have been told if I go near the house that her dad will kill me. (Not sure if he was joking). Now this girl wants me to go her house when her parents have gone. What should I do? Id like to go but I dont fancy crossing her dad.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Question is do u wanna go to her house?? is it worth all the agro it may cause??
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Make sure you really know how you feel about her first before making any decisions. Is it worth the hassle in the long run, do you want to be with this girl or is it just a fling you want?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Go for it, take the risk!

    I'm sure the reward is well worth it!:D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I really do like her a great deal. Its not a question of if I am ready for sex or not. This isn't some small fling or a relationship based on sex.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    There's a few facts missing that are important. Like her age, because if she's underage her father may not just be cross - he may press charges!

    If I were you, I'd probably try to find a compromise, like taking her out instead (especially if there's no parents at home to worry about what time she comes back home...). That way you don't actually defy him, but neither do you seem to be 'wimping out' if that's what she's upto.

    It could be that she is actually more into you defying her dad than she is into the relationship itself, so be careful you're not stepping into a potential mine-field of family power-struggles.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    OK dont worry she is of legal age. Secondly her and her dad get on great. She isnt trying to defy him at all. Its nothing like that. Its exactly what I said. She definatly isnt using me.
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