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dodgeness
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hi this is weird but my boyfriend is not very dodge in words i mean i would like to talk to him bout more stuff but dont want to embarees him how can i do this without giving him the rong idea
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i mean we never talk bout anything dodge at all and i would like to but dont no how to bring the subject up
Erm. You mean like robbing banks and stuff?
u no what i mean
You mean "too"?
i havent a clue what you mean but what type of things are you afraid to talk to him about?
Is there any wonder?
is it because you come out of it always confused? because after reading that whole first page has made me come over with a dizzy head
:yes: cos you don't help??? I'm teasing...I don't come in very often I usually end up feeling depressed...although i'm in helpful mood today so yay!
But you're spot on, it a lopng time since I had some of the teenage relationship problems you lot get - I'm 32 BTW.
I often used to think, "get over it - there's more important things in life", so I figured that it was best just to stay out before I said that and really upset someone.
Its always worth remembering that there's plenty more fish in the sea, that most of the time your parents do love you and they struggle to understand you as much as you struggle to understand them, and that most friendships don't last a lifetime, but there is nearly always someone else out there for you to be friends with.
Obviously there are exceptions to those rules, but that's exactly what they are - exceptions.
That said, I would never dream of belittling anyone's problems. To that person the world is falling apart...
Wow....thats a first for me to be right
But I do agree with you. Most people I do just wanna say get over it to....sometimes do as well....in a nice way of course.
I've been through my probs, but I learnt to be strong when my dad died when I was 9, it's made me harder and sometimes too hard and I know that comes out in a lot of my posts in here, but hey I try to help sometimes. But it isn't a bad thing...just keeps me protected from the hurt in life and I think a lot of people could do with adopting a stronger set of defences to their emotions.