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Going out with an older and rich man/woman
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What would you do if a man/woman really older than you and really rich asked you out?Would you consider a relationship even if you wouldnt like him/her a lot?Would you have done this only for the fancy life that he/she could provide you?
I had this conversation with a friend last night and i'd realllyyy like your opinion!
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I had this conversation with a friend last night and i'd realllyyy like your opinion!
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maybe yes, maybe not...
I would decide at moment....
but it's very interesting possibility to do interensting things....hehehehee
and you have nothing without sacrifice
blodcot, you have to look in the right places....Not all older women have lost their figure and looks you know.
innit. lmao
Of course dey have yo!!
When a woman loses her figure, it's a natural part of aging innit.
It's da truth!!!!
Not the only one to think that way, though I went for the moderate option after realising that I could go to jail if I killed my husband (also around 7 or 8 years old). So I figured I'd get married, get all the presents, get divorced and get all his money that way...
Also being young and a widow at the same time, doesn't sound to good in my ears.
Though, Jacqueline the Ripper- the young widow, does have a nice ring to it.
If I didn't fancy him then I wouldn't go out with him full stop. It would make no difference whther he was older or rich, if I don't like him nothing's gonna happen. Ever! lol
Yeah it'd be nice to have a rich boyf who could buy you nice things, but I don't think any amount of nice things could make up for the fact you couldn't stand him!
No, there's more to life and relationships than money. Wanting someone for their money wouldn't be a good foundation to build a happy, lasting relationship on, neither would wanting someone for their looks. I don't think money can bring you happiness, it's true as they say the best things in life are free. I would rather marry someone who I loved and who loved me and someone who I was compatible with and who had qualities that I loved and admired even if he had very little money than someone who was very rich but there was no love or warmth between you and who you couldn't stand. I don't think I would ever be happy in that kind of relationship. But it depends on what you look for in a relationship, some people would probably rather have the money.
Money really doesn't make a difference.
Cause in the end I don't like people paying for me. Want to show that I can take care of myself, and that I am not some using parasite.
The friend who I mentioned before has a particularly 'bad' habit of doing this, I must owe him about £20-30 but he refuses to let me pay it back to him. If I had a bad character, I'd take advantage but I don't I'll just give all the money I owe him back for Christmas
Let's see a bigger picture, yourself, your personality, your morals, your values, and, you as you see yourself from a third person's point of view? (Hope you're not lost yet.) So, maybe it's only opinions that you're after, or, you're trying to get the opinions of the general puplic population, and compare your decision with what we have to say, and to judge whether you're wierd, normal, good or bad base on it.
So, personally, my morals say only get into a relationship that you are comfortable with. i.e. Do I like this person, girl/chic/lady/woman (however you want to phrase a female human) in my case.
So, if I like her, then I'll have this relationship (whether she's rich or not).
Next, what if I don't like her, but she's rich? This is the hard part. Logically, I would say no to the relationship where no interpersonal attraction exist. Reasons are:
1. I know it's wrong.
2. I want to have my own life, be all that I can be and not by relying on someone else.
3. What if I do meet someone that I really like? See, a real attraction in a relationship is important to me.
Those are the more important reasons, there are more, but I can't be bother to type the rest.
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You got my point.Thats excactly what i was trying to see....opinions.But i must confess i wasnt expect these kind of answers......cause i see that more than a lot people prefer money than feelings especially when it comes to marriage (apart form just a relationship).....and belive me i've seen that plenty of times.
Im glad though that some people still consider love more important than anything!