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Please help me!!
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I recently filled in a form on a website with all of my personal details including things about relationships and crushes. I clicked the box saying that i like members of the same sex and this site turned out to be a trick to get people to put the information and then it gets e-mailed to the person that sent the address to me. So now i have a problem, i'm not sure if i'm straight or Bi because i have had a few fantasies about the same sex but this person who i thought was a friend has told people about it so how should i handle the situation?
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Just because you have fantasies about the same sex doesn't mean you're bi or whatever. And even if you are it's no problem. I don't think sexual preference is a big thing but I know how people can be at school or whatever.
In the end it's none of their business and you can tell them what you like.
I think you should say something like "Oh yeah I'd heard about that scam so I made the answers up, mine would have been a bit boring". They can't prove you're lying can they?!
Unfortunatley they can prove i'm lying because i gave my proper birthdate and full name and other details that are truthful
After all, who'd put all their private details in response to an unsolicited email (aka spam)?
Also if your friends know your personal details then anyone of them could have sent it.
In the mean time sign up to loads of porn sites using your friends email address
If you say that you were aware that it was going to get sent back to this so-called friend then you can always tell them that it was a test of their friendship towards you. Tell them that you thought that they weren't who you thought they were, eg a good friend to you, and that this gossiping has proved it.
All in all if you make a big scene about it they are likely to believe that what you put is true however much you deny it, so either act as if you aren't bothered, try the above tactic or admit the truth.
The decision my friend, is yours .......
A mate done the same thing to me. You fill in your details & it is supposed to tell you who your perfect partner is!!!
Anyway, the thing is. The same thing happened to me.
The box was ticked 4 same sex partner.
Then the details get sent to your mate.
Very embaressing for me considering my mate was a girl.
But I know im not gay.!!!!!
What I think happens, is that it is a practical joke and thats ment to happen.
If it happened to me, and it happened to you, then it must just be a joke.
Ps. If it is the same it asks personal questions, such as do you masterbate & how many times etc.
Let me know if this sound similar to what you did !!
And everybody else WATCH OUT FOR IT !!
I think that is a bloody awful thing to do to a friend! I wouldn't want to know personal things about my friends like that without their knowledge.