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just when you least expect it ,wat should i do now! (no it isn't a baby)
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i'm feeling a bit worried right now! i just checked up on some sites about STI's because when i went away the other week and we ended up at these guys hotel, as i couldn't leave my sis alone with em. one kept suggesting we'd have sex so i said as long as you had protection! and he aggreed sayin he had some in his wallet. so yeah i was a bit of a dick to trust him, i was a bit tipsy at the time aswell but he already had my clothes undone and was tryin to get in when i stopped him and asked him again to get the comdom, then he admitted he used his last one the following week. and thats where it went wrong. he was already on top, inbetween my legs and went straight for it. i got worried thinkin he isn't gonna stop or if i tried to get him off he's get violent. luckily he didn't come,
i know for a fact but since then its bin playin up downstaires and i just looked it up on the net that it could be either genital herpes which could stay in me forever! and i can't believe this has happend, i know i shouldn't have done this to myself in the first place but i can't change the past now! the thing is this could be from my ex or this guy! i am gonna call up this line to talk to a doctor about this all to confirm its wat i think but i dont know what i should do!
i really wanna know if anyone has had this worry b4 or know wat ha bin done about it!
thanx for reading
luv xax
i know for a fact but since then its bin playin up downstaires and i just looked it up on the net that it could be either genital herpes which could stay in me forever! and i can't believe this has happend, i know i shouldn't have done this to myself in the first place but i can't change the past now! the thing is this could be from my ex or this guy! i am gonna call up this line to talk to a doctor about this all to confirm its wat i think but i dont know what i should do!
i really wanna know if anyone has had this worry b4 or know wat ha bin done about it!
thanx for reading
luv xax
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I haven't been through this but I just wanted to reiterate what PussyKatty said, this guy sounds like a twat and this...
...got to me more than I want to explain and I feel for ya.
Good luck and well done for calling a doctor.
You should actually go to your GP. They can't give a diagnosis over the phone I'm afraid.
You should go to your local GUM clinic as soon as you can. The number will be in your local phone book and they often have drop-in sessions where you just turn up. Your GP can also see you as an emergency.
I'm not quite clear about what happened with your boyfriend, but it sounds like sexual assault. No means no. You said you didn't want to have sex without a condom, he ignored you. If you were afraid of violence being used against you then that's a very serious situation. You might like to talk it through with someone from Rape Crisis, or think about reporting it to the police.
Rape Crisis
Referral to local centres for women who have been sexually abused or raped.
Telephone: 0115 9348474
Why rely on the other person?? Your an independent woman!!!!
Its not a bad thing..it shows you care about youself.
Goodluck
And condoms are free from the family planning clinic. NHS pays for them.