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bout time i lost it?
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ok, i'm 16, and i still havent had sex, its really getting anoying now, i'm not under pressure from anyone else but myself, i REALLY want to do it, i dont know what the problem is other than, i cant find anyone suitable to lose it to.....:(
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Personaly i don't see the big deal with losing it. If you do go out and have sex now you may regret it when you find someone that you care about and wish you had waited to lose it with them.
Sex is always better in a loving realtionship espically for you first time. You don't want it to be something you regret do you?
gawd i'm so frustrated :mad:
Doesn't have to be theone just someone that you care about and that cares about you.
It will be much better trust me
dont like me like that,
are with someone,
or sleep around anyway.:(
What you want to focus on is your own self worth here. Do you really think that letting some player or one night stand have access to your most intimate areas would make you feel better or worse about yourself? what about the fact that they might then spread nasty rumours about you since there would be no bond of trust (at the very least) between you and the other person?
At the end of the day, it isnt being a virgin or losing it which is the real issue. Its how well or badly you treat yourself or are treated by someone else that is the main thing to consider.
Why not just experiment further with masturbation to relieve the stress and spare yourself possible additional problems until someone you can at least trust comes into your life?
There are so many ways for girls to pleasure themselves that you shouldn't have too much trouble alternating amongst different methods to keep it interesting at least for a while.
Hope that helps a lil bit...
Anyone who was special would never think you were crap anyway, if so then they wouldn't be that special.
most people dont do it till your age anyway.
its best to wait for the right person cos then its more romantic, better, and you can get intimate. its better than regreting having sex with a stranger/person who u dont love.
luv lou
i want to lose my virginity
i believe i am ready and have been for a while, thats the reason i'm anoyed.
You aren't ready because you haven't found anyone who will have sex with you. A major drawback I do believe.
erm, i am ready
and i have people who would have sex with me
i choose not to sleep with them, for individual reasons
So what advice or response are you actually wanting to hear?
My views are that you aren't ready for a sexual relationship yet. That is my view based purely on what you have posted here.
Of course I am judging you! When you ask for an opinion and give only some information about yourself we are left to judge you with what little info we have!!
Like thinking about the pill maybe and/or start carrying condoms, you don't necessarily have to use them but its always good to have them just incase.
There is some good information here about it all.
Contraception
the longer u wait ......the more desperate you get
no sorry
that came out wrong
the longer u wait the better it gets!!!!!