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Gap Year
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My best friend/boyfriend is going on a gap year, roughin' it round the world for a year, and I am going to Uni. I can totally trust him not to be unfaithful and everything, but I dont know how it'll be with barely any contact for a year, and also I will be meeting lots of people at Uni. I think we will both change with the experiences we have in the year...has anyone else had this problem/situation? It isnt as if we can see each other at the weekend or holidays, this is gonna be a full year. I dont know what to do, we have 2months before it all happens. Also, we are at the 'ready for physical things' stage, would it be bad to before he leaves?? Or would this help?
Thank you so much
Thank you so much
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I dunno about this one, a lil help here peeps...
OK, here goes............The truth.
I honestly do not think that your boyfriend will spen a year travelling the world, seeing all there is too see and living through new experiences without becoming sexually physicial with another lady along the way. Now that does not mean that he will not come back still in love with you! My suggestion would be to call it a day for now, and see how things are in a year when he comes back. (I don't think you will go through the college experience without sexual contact either)
Cheers.
I think you have to be selfish in a way because you haven't considered whether you can be without a boyfriend for a year. Are you willing to wait. You might think that now but a few months is different especially when you get new friends. You may find you actually grow apart coz you'll have different interests and experiences.
I may be a bit biased coz im single so if i am everyone should be