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Struggling with alcoholic cravings
lovemimoon
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I don't know if this is the right place to post this but here we go.
I haven't drunk alcohol in a few months now. When I do, it's an occasional setting (celebrations, parties, etc). However, over the last few weeks, I've been feeling severely low and I feel this sudden urge to drink alcohol for that 'good feeling' to come back.
I haven't drunk alcohol in a few months now. When I do, it's an occasional setting (celebrations, parties, etc). However, over the last few weeks, I've been feeling severely low and I feel this sudden urge to drink alcohol for that 'good feeling' to come back.
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Congratulations on your sobriety over the last few months, and I'm sorry if your is considerably down nowadays.
It is essential to note down the cons of the 'good feeling' that you mentioned in the post. Try to analyse the situation evaluating the pro and cons. Feel free to share your thoughts in this post. We can discuss them together.
A big hug,
Cosmo.
I suppose it’s about finding other ways to cope that won’t make you feel worse in the long run. Do you find anything at all helps you, no matter how small?
I’m sorry you’re struggling so much, sending massive hugs
We are always here for you, wherever you feel best to reach out for support will always be the right place. I just wanted to point out that, that can be quite a normal reaction when we're feeling low. Our brains are likely to sift through and think of things that made us happy, and unfortunately, it's often the more negative coping mechanisms that they cling to when we're in a negative headspace.
I think it's incredible that you're reaching out and that you have so much awareness for where your brain goes to, as that can be so difficult to figure out in difficult times.
Is there anything positive you enjoy doing that helps you feel happy? I.e. cross stitching, reading, drawing, painting etc. It may be helpful to pair these feelings with more positive coping strategies for the future.
Sending you buckets of love right now, you're doing so so incredibly. I am honestly so in awe of your strength and ability to reach out when you need it! Celebrate all the victories because you are doing amazing
@Cosmo
I spoke to my close friend about this and recounted the times that I've consumed alcohol. Realized there was a moment where it was increasing but thankfully, it didn't go any further. So I think the craving's to do with continuing that momentum.
Thank you so much for your response.
Hope you're doing well.
@independent_
Thank you so much for sharing.
It's comforting to know that you've experienced something similar, and I hope you're doing well.
I've been feeling like this for weeks now and I've reached the stage where I'm feeling really self-destructive.
@Brookee
Thank you so much for your response.
There are things I enjoy, and everyone's responses have encouraged me to do just that. Thank you, once again.
Sorry if this is weird but I've seen your responses to other threads and it's really encouraging.
In terms of coping methods, I normally take a hot bath when I'm feeling incredibly low but that's been put on hold. The bathroom's getting redone. I've watched a couple of videos today so that's been helpful. Thank you for your responses, everyone.
Just craving alcohol in a very low period has got me really anxious. In some settings, it's fine but I'm worried that it may lead to a downward spiral.
Well done for sharing and hopefully this feeling doesn't last long. Everyone here appreciates you and you will always have this little corner of the internet to talk to.