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[OLD] The 'I need a hug' thread - please read first post before posting :)

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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,497 Skive's The Limit
    Fml I really want to die. I think they’re going to cancel my tonsillectomy
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    Salix_alba_2019Salix_alba_2019 Deactivated Posts: 1,646 Extreme Poster
    They didn't call but I'm feeling better anyway. And I'm going to throw away my scales and do some things that will actively help me achieve my long term goals.

    I'm sad about it but at the end of the day, maybe it just means that they know that I can cope and priorities those who are at immediate risk.
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,497 Skive's The Limit
    Struggling to think of any reason to carry on living
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,497 Skive's The Limit
    So painful mentally. Crying
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    Past UserPast User Definition of a mental mess and a certified lost cause :) EnglandPosts: 0 Just got here
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,497 Skive's The Limit
    So easy for people to act like I don’t try hard enough or things get better without knowing the pain I’ve been through and this constant weight on my chest
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    summerxo21summerxo21 Deactivated Posts: 321 The Mix Regular
    edited September 2021
    is life so shit that previous scars/memories are killing you ever so slightly? i actually cannot think better then to end my life with how my rape has fucked my life up.

    mod edit: removed method of suicide
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Having a hard time and not in a good place mentally..but my friends are being so lovely and supporting and I really appreciate them 💜
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    summerxo21summerxo21 Deactivated Posts: 321 The Mix Regular
    GreenTea wrote: »
    Having a hard time and not in a good place mentally..but my friends are being so lovely and supporting and I really appreciate them 💜

    sorry to hear that.

    glad you have them <3

    Hugs <3
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    I know I need to go back to my GP for how I'm feeling. I also know I'll just be put back anti depressants and I want to avoid that.
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    summerxo21summerxo21 Deactivated Posts: 321 The Mix Regular
    GreenTea wrote: »
    I know I need to go back to my GP for how I'm feeling. I also know I'll just be put back anti depressants and I want to avoid that.

    did they help last time?
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    Millie2787Millie2787 Community Champion Posts: 5,146 Part of The Furniture
    Love being pushed to the side and ignored :(
    Sometimes all you need is one person to believe in you , for you to begin to believe in yourself.
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    This is too much.
    I hope everyone else is ok this evening. I'm a message away
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,497 Skive's The Limit
    This life is so painful
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Mentally exhausted
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    summerxo21summerxo21 Deactivated Posts: 321 The Mix Regular
    Shaunie wrote: »
    This life is so painful

    hugs <3
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Texting with SHOUT again. I feel like a burden but talking is helpful
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    summerxo21summerxo21 Deactivated Posts: 321 The Mix Regular
    GreenTea wrote: »
    Texting with SHOUT again. I feel like a burden but talking is helpful

    hope they'll help you aren't a burden you're looking out for the most important ( YOU ) hugs
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Exhausted
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    Mel_Mel_ Posts: 574 Incredible Poster
    really struggling, so many urges to leave the house & go to an unsafe place. i can't do this anymore I can't
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    independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,615 Legendary Poster
    GP prescribed stronger painkillers for my back pain and even they’re hardly touching the pain, I’m officially an old lady :joy:
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
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    Past UserPast User Definition of a mental mess and a certified lost cause :) EnglandPosts: 0 Just got here
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    DandelionDandelion Posts: 1,911 Extreme Poster
    I’m so scared my ready meal wasn’t defrosted enough before I cooked it and it had chicken in. I’ve just eaten the whole thing but I’m so scared I’m going to get ill from it
    The steps you take don’t need to be big, they just need to take you in the right direction. 
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    Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
    Super fucking anxious
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    Millie2787Millie2787 Community Champion Posts: 5,146 Part of The Furniture
    Why does clothes shopping have to become so difficult when your fat . I’ve just spent £50 on 4 pairs of Pjs as I desperately needed some for uni and struggling to find a coat
    Sometimes all you need is one person to believe in you , for you to begin to believe in yourself.
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    Salix_alba_2019Salix_alba_2019 Deactivated Posts: 1,646 Extreme Poster
    @Millie2787 have you had a look at some plus size online stores, they usually have so much more variety 🤩
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    Millie2787Millie2787 Community Champion Posts: 5,146 Part of The Furniture
    @Salix_alba_2019 seee I do but I’m really awkward with trousers and textures so I do like to try things on … but all the plus size shops just seems to be aimed at older women 🙃plus I had to get those Pjs yesterday , I was in desperate need and they wouldn’t come before Thursday if I ordered online lol
    Sometimes all you need is one person to believe in you , for you to begin to believe in yourself.
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    KHI1886kKHI1886k Deactivated Posts: 136 The Mix Convert
    Not feeling too great today. Feel lost but also confused :/
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Slam the door one more time and ima bounce your head off it. Just fucking stop.
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    KHI1886kKHI1886k Deactivated Posts: 136 The Mix Convert
    GreenTea wrote: »
    Slam the door one more time and ima bounce your head off it. Just fucking stop.

    are you ok?
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