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ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 932 Part of The Mix Family
how do u stop a person taking control of ur life
Jade09Shaunie

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  • LubnaLubna Posts: 496 Budding Regular
    Take control yourself. Cut all toxic people out, you are better than that๐Ÿ’ช
    BubblesGoesBoo
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 932 Part of The Mix Family
    I cant wen i c him everyday
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 932 Part of The Mix Family
    i need hugs sent
    coc0macJade09PoppyB
  • BubblesGoesBooBubblesGoesBoo Sunny ScotlandPosts: 3,535 Community Veteran
    Sending loads of hugs your way!ย  <3
    ' So I put a bullet where I shouda put a helmet, and I crash my car cause I wanna get carried away, that's why I'm standing on the overpass screaming at myself 'hey, I wanna get better''ย ย 
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 932 Part of The Mix Family
    i msgd him saying y I wasn't there nd my feelings, was tht right to do?
  • Past UserPast User Posts: 0 The Mix Regular
    It sounds like the right thing to do, as long as you act on it accordingly now and try to do what's best for you.
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 932 Part of The Mix Family
    Is someone who blurts out insults bullying. When I'm unhappy with someone or they've avoided gtn the key chucked away. I just msg them go haywire n I msg them till it becomes out of hand. Wot do I do if he goes all unprofessional and rantsย  Nds shoutsinsults. N I can't ignore it bcoz his voice scares me n sticks in my head.
    Feel free to msg me on steam :) xx

    I don't feel like I have control :(
  • Past UserPast User Posts: 0 The Mix Regular
    I think maybe it's easy for me to give this advice because I've come to be very good at it, often times to my own detriment. But I feel as though cutting out bad things and bad people is entirely the best option. On that note, if at all possible you should do your best to avoid seeing the person who's scaring / hurting you, and dont strike up any conversations with them either.

    Confronting someone about how they're treating you can definitely be nice for a little bit, but often times it'll only make things worse, so it's far easier to just move on if you can. :)ย 

    Is it someone you have to see, someone you have to talk to? How is it he's taking control of your life? If we know more we might be able to help you better.
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 932 Part of The Mix Family
    I hav 2. they getย  a lot of money so I hav to and because the student room is also the office. the fat b-st--d is the first person I see. I think he has memory loss coz he denies it too. wen he calls me stuff n yells at me to get out the building I do n don't return 4 days, so I do music at home
  • StephanieStephanie Posts: 731 Super Moderator
    Hey Ellie,

    How are you feeling? :heart:
    ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย "Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times if only one remembers to turn on the light"ย 

    - Albus Dumbledoreย 

    "Like when I was down you just had that smile that made me feel like everything's worthwhile. Thinking of the day when you went away, what a life to take, what a bond to break, I'll be missing you"

  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 932 Part of The Mix Family
    When I go to music I feel sh*t, so I m staying home as I did last week after holiday because I'm up n I don't wanna b put down again.ย  I'm happy :)
  • Han93Han93 EnglandPosts: 300 The Mix Regular
    I'm really glad to hear that you're feeling happy at the moment <3

    One of the questions you asked earlier is if what's happening is bullying so I thought it might be useful for me to pop some posts on here from The Mix about what bullying is and how to deal with it:
    https://www.themix.org.uk/sex-and-relationships/friendship/expert-chat-bullying-15348.html
    https://www.themix.org.uk/sex-and-relationships/friendship/bored-of-banter-when-banter-turns-to-bullying-31041.html
    https://www.themix.org.uk/sex-and-relationships/friendship/beat-bullying-6285.html
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 932 Part of The Mix Family
    There's ppl tht r 'proffesional bullying me too
  • ShaunieShaunie Iโ€™m alive but Iโ€™m โœจdeadโœจ England ๐Ÿ Posts: 11,005 An Original Mixlorian
    edited December 2019
    It sounds like youre doing all the right things. You said you was happy on tuesday. I hope you still are. <3.
    ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐จ๐ฉ ๐๐จ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฆ๐š๐ค๐ž ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐ฉ๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ, ๐š๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก ๐ฅ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ž๐ง๐œ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐ญ๐ž๐ซ ๐ฉ๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ ๐๐จ๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ. ๐๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ž๐š๐›๐ฅ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฉ๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ซ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ. ๐’๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐ฎ๐ง๐š๐ฉ๐จ๐ฅ๐จ๐ ๐ž๐ญ๐ข๐œ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ซ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐œ๐ค ๐š๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐. ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 932 Part of The Mix Family
    I go up web I haven't seen some ppl for acouple of weeks, and I see them n they call me something, I crash and I can't get back up
  • boaboa Posts: 8 Moderator
    Hi Ellie,ย ย 

    This sounds really difficult. How are you feeling today?ย 
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 932 Part of The Mix Family
    Merry Christmas xxxx โ™ฅ๏ธ I'm gd I'm listening to nightwish. Luv my family. I have duck l8r ๐Ÿ˜€
    Jade09
  • ShaunieShaunie Iโ€™m alive but Iโ€™m โœจdeadโœจ England ๐Ÿ Posts: 11,005 An Original Mixlorian
    edited December 2019
    Hope you're okay today Ellie ? Hope you had a good Christmasย 
    ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐จ๐ฉ ๐๐จ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฆ๐š๐ค๐ž ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐ฉ๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ, ๐š๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก ๐ฅ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ž๐ง๐œ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐ญ๐ž๐ซ ๐ฉ๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ ๐๐จ๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ. ๐๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ž๐š๐›๐ฅ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฉ๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ซ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ. ๐’๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐ฎ๐ง๐š๐ฉ๐จ๐ฅ๐จ๐ ๐ž๐ญ๐ข๐œ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ซ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐œ๐ค ๐š๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐. ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 932 Part of The Mix Family
    I had wonderful Christmas thank you. Wen I was alone 4a nite I went panicky and haywire. I told someone who I didn't like wat I thought of them and I ask ppl wat do I do if...
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