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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
hi
I think i have feel in love with one of the boss's at my work. I know he feels the same coz he told me but he said we couldnt b together coz he is 29 and im only 16. I really do love him and i want him to c that. wot should i do
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hiya,
    Personally ive never been in this kind of situation.However I think that relationships in work situations could be very difficult. If you are sure about it though, then why not. It is quite a big age gap, but i think if two people like eachother enough then it shouldnt matter.Im also 16 and have a 23 year old b/f.Good luck with it whatever you decide! <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> (This topic might be better in the relationships forum)

    [ 22-05-2002: Message edited by: Fairy ]

    [ 22-05-2002: Message edited by: Fairy ]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Couple of articles for you:
    age gaps
    Screwing the crew

    Susie <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    he could just be takin advantage of his position, both as an older guy and a boss.

    i would steer well clear

    and is he married?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't go there! I had a thing with a guy from work once, and although he wasn't my boss, he did hold a higher position than me. Cue lots of lying to colleagues and terifying moments when nearly caught. It all ended badly & we still had to work together. It is so not worth it & being in the junior poistion, if anything goes wrong it'll be you who's squeezed out.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No he isnt married but his sister is aways in his life.I reallydo like him i cant stop thinking of if.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You're 16.

    Its just hormones. Let it go and move on.

    Men are not as cracked up as they seem to be anyway. You're better off without one.
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