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[OLD] The 'I need a hug' thread - please read first post before posting :)

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    Millie2787Millie2787 Community Champion Posts: 5,146 Part of The Furniture
    Really struggling with everything now :( Have GP appointment next week but she just doesn’t listen to anything I say . Just want to curl up and disappear from exsistance 
    Sometimes all you need is one person to believe in you , for you to begin to believe in yourself.
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Why do people purposely do things to cause hurt and upset?
    (Not to do with here or anyone here)
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,497 Skive's The Limit
    Wish could be left alone. :'( i like to be able to breath
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    Kathleen07Kathleen07 Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
    I can't remember when I last felt genuine happiness. I think it's probably been years, like, seriously. I'm so sick of how bad I feel and it just never ends.

    I like to think that I'm sick with mental illness but this is probably just how life is rather than something wrong with me :/
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Woken up to some really abusive messages :( literally not done anything wrong, this isn't how I want to start the day, full of anxiety due to death and rape threats
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Disappearing. Can't do this anymore. Nobody gives a shit about me 
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,497 Skive's The Limit
    edited September 2019
    The vets detected Teddy has got a heart murmer thingy. So the anisetic could affect it. And give him a caradic arrest and our decision is wanna still get his balls cut off with that. So hes back home now cause not risking it  And it costs £400 for heart tests:( we literally dont have the money. I don’t know if his insurance would cover that or if would be seen as unnessairy
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,497 Skive's The Limit
    Aw im really upset that teddy has a heart murmur. :'( They have never said that before :'( . We are gunna see about insurance and if not we are gunna find a way to pay for £400 test cause it could be nothing but it could be something and we dont wanna risk it. So need tests. And then what if it is something bad:'(. I literally get paid £200 a month. How can i contribute to it :((((((
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    The anxiety of getting a bus is kicking in majotl
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,497 Skive's The Limit



    "Heart murmurs sound serious, and often are,..."
    well thanks for reassurance google
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,497 Skive's The Limit
    I dont think ill last much longer. Life too painful & i dont actually want to live anymore or do anything. Somethings will never improve & i people tell me to be kinder to myself then yeah i dont deserve this. I need to be at peace (Safe rn)
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,497 Skive's The Limit
    edited September 2019
    I just keep thinking if i die. I dont want pity. To be reminded of the girl who was too weak for life. The selfish one. Or people to pretend they cared. Id probably be not remembered at all, no matter when i die. I dont want another day of this. Will just a faded memory in end(I am safe)
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    Kathleen07Kathleen07 Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
    Sending big hugs to you all <3
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    Millie2787Millie2787 Community Champion Posts: 5,146 Part of The Furniture
    GreenTea said:
    A positive day ending with news a friend has passed away 😭 
    I am so so sorry to hear this @GreenTea ❤️ Sending you all the love and support you need right now 
    Sometimes all you need is one person to believe in you , for you to begin to believe in yourself.
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    davcr0ckdavcr0ck Posts: 774 Part of The Mix Family
    They want me to take 8mg of walfarin as my inr levels are so low, this can throw it the other way to it being too high 😞😞

    Also this douge could do some serious harm to my body they also mentioned too

    Is isn't my week 😭😭😭😭😞😞
    Love is love and everyone is accepting and can share their issues with no judge from me and I try to help 
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    Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
    Hey, hope everyone is safe and doing okay. Having a pretty low week and thought I should say something. Hopefully it subsides soon and I'll do my best to talk about it some more.
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    Kathleen07Kathleen07 Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
    Who wants lots of cash?! :D Because I have some on offer, in exchange for whoever can level out my serotonin and therefore restore the enthusiasm and energy and make the sadness leave. I'll even think of giving you my soul if you can do a really good job!
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Came home from work to find the front door wide open and nobody home... wtf
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    I don't feel comfortable or safe in my own home because of the issue said above 😭😭😭
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    Butterfly23Butterfly23 Posts: 810 Part of The Mix Family
    Hugs to anyone who needs them 💗
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,497 Skive's The Limit
    Ong i feel so bad :'(
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    Evelyn360Evelyn360 Posts: 82 Budding Regular
    Hugs to you @Butterfly23 for always checking in and giving out hugs  :3
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,497 Skive's The Limit
    Cant fucking taje it any more😭
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    Butterfly23Butterfly23 Posts: 810 Part of The Mix Family
    @Evelyn360 thank you!  X
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    I want to sleep but I'm worried about someone coming back to the house and breaking in
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Woken up this morning to find a house fire down the road. 
    I really hope everyone is ok
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