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Goodbye

Kathleen07Kathleen07 Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
Hey <3

You can probably gather from the title what this is about. I've been thinking for a while, and I've finally decided to leave the boards.

In some ways, this place makes me feel worse - let me make it clear that that's nothing to do with you guys :) - because of... Stuff... Going on in my life... Yeah, long story haha. But I honestly think that I have to leave to help calm some of my feelings. I hope that doesn't affect anyone too much.

I just wanted to post this to say goodbye. You're all really nice people. And thank you so much for all your help to me.

Stay strong lovelies <3

Comments

  • *BananaMonkey**BananaMonkey* Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    Hey Kathleen, sending hugs :heart:

    I will miss seeing you around this place, your a lovely member of the community and a valued member of the community. 

    It's really good that your recognising you need a bit of a break. I hope things work out for you, and were not going anywhere so we will be here if/when you decide to return

    Take good care of yourself. 

    You'll be missed :heart: 
    " And everywhere I am, there you'll be, your love made me make it through, oh I owe so much to you "
    " So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
    '' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
  • Kathleen07Kathleen07 Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
    Thank you @*BananaMonkey* <3

    Yeah, I'm almost certainly not coming back. I'm afraid to say, lol.

    It means so much to hear that you'll miss seeing me around <3
  • LaineLaine Deactivated Posts: 2,762 Boards Guru
    Take care Kathleen 💕 

    Of course we'll be sad to see you go but self care is definitely important and it's best to do what's right for you :)

    Remember all the other services are available if you require (121, Crisis messenger etc)

    And you're always welcome back whenever.

    I wish you the very best! 💜 

    🌈Positive thoughts🌈

    "This is my family. I found it, all on my own.
    It's little, and Broken, but still good. Yeah. Still good." ~ Stitch

    "Lately, I've been struggling with all the simple things in my life" ~ Cian Ducrot

    "I don't know if it's because my heart hurts or I'm insecure" ~ Juice Wrld
  • JellyelephantJellyelephant Posts: 1,869 Extreme Poster
    Aww Kathleen ur so lovey and an amazing part of the boards your responses are so kind and caring. I understand though and you need to do what’s best for you so I will wish you all the best and big hugs and goodbye xxx
    The sun will rise and we will try again 
  • Kathleen07Kathleen07 Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
    Sending hugs and wishing you the very best. Thank you so much <3@Laine @Jellyelephant

    It's a tough decision and I feel really bad for abandoning you folks. Hahah, I'm sure you'll be able to cope though ;)
  • JustVJustV Community Manager Posts: 5,284 Part of The Furniture
    edited June 2019
    Just to echo what the others have said, it's good to see you doing what's right for you @kathleen0172, even if that thing isn't easy. There will always be a place for you here.

    Thank you for the herculean amount you've given to the community, and stay safe out there. :)
    All behaviour is a need trying to be met.
  • Kathleen07Kathleen07 Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
    Aww thank you @Mike, stay awesome <3
  • AzzimanAzziman Moderator, Community Champion Posts: 1,826 Extreme Poster
    Sad to see you go @kathleen0172, but glad you're doing what's best for your wellbeing! Wish you the best going forwards!x

    Much love <3
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  • Kathleen07Kathleen07 Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
    Thanks @Azziman, wishing you the best too mate <3
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,463 Skive's The Limit
    Aw sad to see youre leaving. Youve lovely and helped me and others a lot. Understand though. We will Always be here to support you. Take care! <3 x
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • Kathleen07Kathleen07 Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
    Thank you @Shaunie <3 I'm kind of sad too ahah..

    Take the best of care yourself. You're lovely too and I think a lot of you <3
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,463 Skive's The Limit
    Miss you. Hope youre okay x
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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