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Uhhh.. Ejaculation
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Hey i'm a 16 year old male... the problem is... My girlfriend has given me several hand jobs and blow jobs... and although we only started doing this recently i haven't once ejaculated. I really enjoy her doing this though, which is why i am so suprised by it. I have had her changing the tempo to try and help me out... however every time i feel very close to ejeculating but never do. When i masterbate myself i ejaculate though. Anyone reckon they knows whats up?? Or is just because i am nervous (i have never done anything like this before).
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hope this helps.
oral sex, i hardly do, just sit back and enjoy it ..:p
Its a mental thing that im sure will disappear over time
But its still too early to jump to conclusion yet!
I wish that was true for me but sadly when having sex been drunk or tipsy, so I am relaxed. and I'm pretty open minded anyway and tend to lose my inhibitions before hand
I still enjoy sex for what it is,and i'll keep on trying to cum!!
Just don't think of sex as trying to reach goals, just learn to play with out Scoring and try and have fun
I always feel kinda guilty cos she is working so hard (excuse the vulgarity) and getting tired and trying anything but i never ejaculate!
BTW, are you on any meds or drugs or anything, cos that can affect performance. As can drinking too much.
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