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My name is Jason and I live in Australia,
When I was in primary school I hardly every had accident but once I started high school it’s been happening more and more. When I try to go to the toilets at home before school mothing ever happened except for being able to do a pee. Once I get to school and sometimes even before, like at the bus stop I always have to go and if I try to hold it in until after school it really hurts my insides and I can’t concentrate during the day. If I try to do it in the toilets at school nothing comes out even if I sit there for the whole break but if I do it in my underwear after I get to school its ok. Once I found that out I stared doing it every day which made my insides stopped hurting and that made me able to concentrate again and my grades got allot better as well.
It’s the same if I am out places all day on the weekend, like at the go cart track where me and my friends like going. I always wear 3 of my underwear at school and when I am out places so no one knows and I wash them because mom doesn’t like to. Do anyone else have the same thing as me and do you think that’s normal for some people and why do you think I can never do it in the toilets at school or out places.
When I was in primary school I hardly every had accident but once I started high school it’s been happening more and more. When I try to go to the toilets at home before school mothing ever happened except for being able to do a pee. Once I get to school and sometimes even before, like at the bus stop I always have to go and if I try to hold it in until after school it really hurts my insides and I can’t concentrate during the day. If I try to do it in the toilets at school nothing comes out even if I sit there for the whole break but if I do it in my underwear after I get to school its ok. Once I found that out I stared doing it every day which made my insides stopped hurting and that made me able to concentrate again and my grades got allot better as well.
It’s the same if I am out places all day on the weekend, like at the go cart track where me and my friends like going. I always wear 3 of my underwear at school and when I am out places so no one knows and I wash them because mom doesn’t like to. Do anyone else have the same thing as me and do you think that’s normal for some people and why do you think I can never do it in the toilets at school or out places.
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Welcome to the boards!
It is normal to not be able to go to the toilet in public places often and you're definitely not alone! Sometimes when you're out you feel anxious or nervous and it stops you from going. However if it does cause problems and it hurts when you don't go then it's probably best to visit the doctors and tell them exactly what is happening because they can help you, especially since doing it in your underwear isn't very hygienic and can cause problems like rashes and infections since bacteria multiply very quickly in warmer conditions often which clothes cover, especially underwear. We aren't experts here and unfortunately since you live in Australia, we can't provide many website links to help you since we're UK based, but it would be good to google this. It is often known as toilet anxiety and is very common! Doctors is most likely the best step forwards to help you
Drea
I'm thinking that I could just make an excuse to see the doctor that way I don't have to tell anyone the real reason and I can just say when I'm there