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hi, i was wondering if i could get some advise from anyone.
i'm almost 17 and i'm really overweight. i don't mean a few lb's over, i mean a couple of stones. i'm not sure what the average weight for a 16/17 year old is but i am about 16 stones and have been putting on a lot of weight recently.
none of my family are big at all and i wouldn't mind so much but i LOOK really huge aswell, it's embarrasing because my clothes are ill-fitting and too tight.
i've tried to diet but i can't keep it up and i'm too overweight to excercise properly.
i never used to be fat at all but i have put on so much in the last few years. it's getting to the point where i'm grossly unhealthy but i just can't stop.
i'm so embarrassed about it so i can't talk to my parents or friends, can anyone give me any advise?
i'm almost 17 and i'm really overweight. i don't mean a few lb's over, i mean a couple of stones. i'm not sure what the average weight for a 16/17 year old is but i am about 16 stones and have been putting on a lot of weight recently.
none of my family are big at all and i wouldn't mind so much but i LOOK really huge aswell, it's embarrasing because my clothes are ill-fitting and too tight.
i've tried to diet but i can't keep it up and i'm too overweight to excercise properly.
i never used to be fat at all but i have put on so much in the last few years. it's getting to the point where i'm grossly unhealthy but i just can't stop.
i'm so embarrassed about it so i can't talk to my parents or friends, can anyone give me any advise?
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Dieting doesn't work. You lose weight in the short-term, and then unless you stick to the diet for the rest of your life (fun, eh?) you'll put the weight back on.
Healthy eating works, changing your eating patterns and the kinds of food that you eat. It means having a healthy lifestyle, not sweating it out in the gym (unless you feel inclined to when you are more comfortable with yourself) but incorporating exercise into your life - walking, cycling, whatever. Your body is designed to be active, not sit on the bus with pensioners.
If you want to lose some weight, you can. We can't give 'diet tips' here (nor should we), we don't know what foods you like, activities you enjoy etc. What works for others may not work for you. A balanced diet (not of the slim-fast variety) doesn't mean lentils until you resemble a two-pin plug. You can eat chocolate, crisps, whatever - but in that lovely word - MODERATION.
If your clothes are ill-fitting, get some that fit. Don't put your life on hold until you are slimmer. The weight isn't going to srop off - it took months to put it on, it'll take a good while to take off.
Time will pass whether you decide to do anything or not. You can start off slowly, eat a decent breakfast and nick your next door neighbours dog for a walk.
If you really feel uanble to motivate yourself, find someone who will. Doesn't matter who, but sometimes we all need a kick up the arse to get us started. Support can make all the difference.
You are never too fat to exercise, but you must avoid over-doing it. Your body is perhaps not used to regular exercise, so don't do too much too early.
Diet is important too. Fruit and veg go without saying, cut down on fatty foods and snacks, and drink plenty of water.
Good luck
ps Detailed advice on exercises etc can be found in the Sport & Fitness forum.
Avoid crash or fad diets, they don't work in the long run, and can be dangerous.
Healthy eating stuff here:
http://www.thesite.org/magazine/specials_body_image/healthy_eating_and_fitness/a_balanced_diet.html