If you need urgent support, call 999 or go to your nearest A&E. To contact our Crisis Messenger (open 24/7) text THEMIX to 85258.
Asian girl likes me !!!!
Former Member
Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Wow. Just seen this thread because I was going to ask about something.....
I'm 30yrs old and white. She's 26 and Asian. We've only just started chatting to each other online since the weekend. She's an amazingly beautiful woman and I CANNOT believe she's talking to me. We met on a dating site. She told me that she looked at my profile and when I didn't send her a message, she sent me one asking if I like Asian girls. I said yes and we took it from there. We've talked mostly about everything now. She even asked me questions on sex two nights ago !!!!
She's a little shy like me... and she enjoys some of the same things as me.
She told me that her parents don't want her to date guys, (something to do with her culture????!), but she dates them any way.
She doesn't like Asian guys, only white guys.
She's told me that I'm cute lol
Are Asian women allowed to date whoever they want and why would her parents frown upon her dating guys?
I'm 30yrs old and white. She's 26 and Asian. We've only just started chatting to each other online since the weekend. She's an amazingly beautiful woman and I CANNOT believe she's talking to me. We met on a dating site. She told me that she looked at my profile and when I didn't send her a message, she sent me one asking if I like Asian girls. I said yes and we took it from there. We've talked mostly about everything now. She even asked me questions on sex two nights ago !!!!
She's a little shy like me... and she enjoys some of the same things as me.
She told me that her parents don't want her to date guys, (something to do with her culture????!), but she dates them any way.
She doesn't like Asian guys, only white guys.
She's told me that I'm cute lol
Are Asian women allowed to date whoever they want and why would her parents frown upon her dating guys?
0
Comments
It's common that someone with Asian heritage would describe themselves as Asian even if they just mean through heritage. Having said that, the word Asian tends to differ depending which continent or even country you're in - e.g. if an American person says Asian they usually mean someone from or with parents/grandparents from Eastern Asian countries like Japan or China. If someone from the UK refers to the Asian population they tend to be referring to people who were born in or have parents or grandparents from India, Bangladesh or Pakistan. Regardless both often provoke massive generalisations and even if you identify a group of people as having potential shared cultural heritage, chances are that when you get past the stereotypes the views of parents even within those same groups will vary dramatically.
Spintires, its probably worth trying to understand a bit more about what her parents are like and why they might be wary of who their daughter dates. If you base it on cultural assumptions, you may be at risk of unintentionally distancing yourself from this girl or not really fully understanding what's going on in her experience specifically. Does that make sense?
Hope things go well for you
We're taking it slow for now. Going to meet her next month, and I cannot wait.
She's even told some of her friends so she must really like me. lol
I always go for women who have problems in their life and I don't know why. I'm sick to my stomach because of it. I'm an idiot.
I've been on two dating sites for fuck knows how long and no one sends me any messages. I think it's a waste of time like me fucking life. I don't know why I was born.
At the moment I'm looking for sex