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Does age really matter in a relationship??
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I was wondering if any of you thought that age really matters in a relationship?
"Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter." ~ Mark Twain
Do you think that love conquers all and that age doesn't come into it? Is there any age you might consider too old? Or too young? What makes you think that?
For me, Im not sure I could date someone younger - I'd feel like their mother!
Do you have a preference - e.g. always liking older guys? Or would you never go for a younger man? If you can, it'd be great to see what other people think!
Thanks!
"Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter." ~ Mark Twain
Do you think that love conquers all and that age doesn't come into it? Is there any age you might consider too old? Or too young? What makes you think that?
For me, Im not sure I could date someone younger - I'd feel like their mother!
Do you have a preference - e.g. always liking older guys? Or would you never go for a younger man? If you can, it'd be great to see what other people think!
Thanks!
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I couldn't date anyone younger than me I don't think. My sister is the same.
I think that it also depends on what you want from the relationship - if you were a bit younger, you might just be want something fun and relaxed, whereas if you were a bit older - you might want something more serious.
Do you think other people's opinions on ages in a relationship matter? Or should it just be about the couple and how they feel about it?
I agree. My post was more on general principle. If you can find someone who's at the same level as you and on the same wavelength, age shouldn't matter.
However, if you're happy and content and sure about your own relationship, I don't see a reason to act based on other peoples' opinions - age gap or no age gap. At the end of the day it's your life and your happiness. Saying that, though, if people close to you raise concerns about it then it may be best to listen. They probably wouldn't say anything unless they thought it necessary. They may well see an overwhelming problem that your own relationship prevents you from seeing. This doesn't mean you need to act based on their opinion, though, or take their word as gospel truth.