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clearing the air

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Its been 2/3 months since ive stopped going with my ex im still getting over her ive some feels for her anyway we ended on bad terms

im just wondering is it a good idea to have a talk clear the air I dont want to get back with her just trying to be grown up about it

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Fire up some porn and have a wank. If immediately afterwards you still think it's a good idea, then go for it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ive been thinking it for a while so dont think porns going to help
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm not sure but I think you've just got to do what feels right for you.

    Do you honestly think it will help in the slightest to move forward?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    mclovin69 wrote: »
    Ive been thinking it for a while so dont think porns going to help

    It's not about porn. It's about man's mind being the clearest with a sticky tip. I ponder over a lot of things regarding women, but if they seem unappealing if you just had a wank, they are a product of your libido.

    Disregarding the post-wank decision making though, from what I understand of your situation I don't think it will help getting over her. What are you doing with your free time, if I may ask?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    There was a lot of bad things say from me and her I did it before with another ex now we're friends says happy with her life only talk to her now and again I dont have feels for her before u ask lol but when I cleared the air with her it helpped the both of us

    free time im working out with friends playin xbox watching box sets dying with a hangover lol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey there :)

    I've never taken long to get over ex's, but I know a lot of people who have found it hard so I can still understand. I've had friends who I've fallen out with and I want to apologize/clear the air but haven't known how. Its difficult!

    Instead of meeting up with her face to face to sort out problems (which could end up going horribly wrong and could send you back to feeling rubbish again) I'd email/facebook message her instead. :) That way you can write a list of the exact things you want to say and then end it along the lines of saying how you would like to remain civil, because you don't quite want to ignore her.

    I hope you manage to sort things out. Make sure you don't let old feelings and your emotions get the better of you though :)

    R xx
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