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Is this why I don't get dates?
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I think it's because I don't have the same standard knowledge all others have/got.
And by me getting it, it irks others, but I don't care since I live my life for me and don't have to consider others unless I hurt them (and IMO this doesn't hurt them). It's like I remember at school that people used to say I "acted hard" when the norm was/is that it's everybody's right, so yeah I find it funny that I anger people over nothing haha!
I think as an example, everybody learnt that morals are subjective at an early age (like 11 or 12) and I only learnt when I was 28, but with every crisis is an opportunity so I'm getting what others go. I think another thing is (arguably the major thing) is that most people in the world believe in fate and they hold rights from God to do/have stuff, but I don't so I don't see why their morals are better than mine (or in fairness mine theirs).
So once I get standard knowledge, I get dates and normality. :d
And by me getting it, it irks others, but I don't care since I live my life for me and don't have to consider others unless I hurt them (and IMO this doesn't hurt them). It's like I remember at school that people used to say I "acted hard" when the norm was/is that it's everybody's right, so yeah I find it funny that I anger people over nothing haha!
I think as an example, everybody learnt that morals are subjective at an early age (like 11 or 12) and I only learnt when I was 28, but with every crisis is an opportunity so I'm getting what others go. I think another thing is (arguably the major thing) is that most people in the world believe in fate and they hold rights from God to do/have stuff, but I don't so I don't see why their morals are better than mine (or in fairness mine theirs).
So once I get standard knowledge, I get dates and normality. :d
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lulz... so persistence is wrong?
I usually have good and even uncanny suspicions, I reckon it's because you feel threatened that others are seeking what you take as exclusive. I wasn't raised to think that, and I personally don't agree with your morals or care who has/does what. I can strongly sense, in your case at the least but I presume others here also, that is the truth.
I say it's a fact there is common knowledge, if others get "offended" at me simply living per goals (yay, evil human traits!!) so be it, they need to upgrade to the real world.
I don't believe this, but OK.
Do you have this kind of conversation with your [potential] dates?
this makes no actual sense to me.
Does others thinking differently from you offend you? Does it need to? I don't believe in fate as you do, and IMO it's largely weak people who do so.
No, but I sense what I say is the truth. I don't see why I can't get what I want bar some fatalistic nonsense.
All this knowledge you say you're lacking, other people didn't get it because they were told. They got it on their own, because of the way their minds work. They simply realised some things based on events that happen in their lives.
The same things probably have happened to you too (since we all live in the same world) but because your mind works differently, you didn't realise the same things others do.
Unfortunately, as most people get this knowledge on their own I don't know of any place where it's written down. I do believe some people may be able to tell you the basics and perhaps help you get the rest yourself, but you won't find them on this website. Those people need to have studied this subject. You need help from professionals. Doctors who deal with mental health (which includes the way people's minds work) are a good place to start.
er.. no, I don't believe that, I believe people are told. I also strongly suspect others are offended because I'm improving myself and they can't take it lol... And mental health? I have no mental health issue at all, it's only guesswork and not a true science and I have no condition in the DSM V.
Indrid has basically hit the nail on the head in this thread - having knowledge is all about how someone's mind works and responds to stimuli. It's good to hear you may have made some progress with this.
In terms of fate - like Indrid, lots of people believe it to be nonsense and it's best if you don't assume that you're the only one who doesn't believe in it.
It's the single least inventive way to troll. Pick any message board and you'll find a thread exactly like this.
They must get a kick out of it because they do it over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again.
The desperate 'have I offended you, please tell me that I offended you' stuff is new though. Someone is feeling insecure about their trolling abilities.
lol... I know you're offended. And do I have to care if you are? if you feel threatened that somebody is moving onto your "territory" than you clearly are insecure, as nobody has to care nor give a crap about your "territory". Funny how you claim you're so wise, yet don't know human conduct... Sorry, but if all others hold standard knowledge and use it to prosper, then so can I. others being offended is immaterial, let them live their own lives... given how you and most others think, I know my suspicion is dead on, they mostly are..
And frankly you ARE offended since you're so irked over what some stranger says online, but yeah protect your fatalistic territory hahah..
I ask a lot since all others have it, so can I. it's how all others get by, so can I. I don't get why it's wrong to seek means to improve one's life, no different IMO to losing weight, studying harder, etc. it's about growth, which is life as a human.
the only logical reason why people deny me is because they feel threatened and insecure, but I don't need them to care what they do since i don't agree with their value system/morality (,i.e. fate and thinking the universe owes them things). It's people "offended" that I'll get lots of friends and sex and stuff, but so what? I do as I please, I only concern myself with what I or others who I care about do, maybe people need to follow my example.
Awww, buddy! It's ok! There are new message boards popping up every day that haven't seen the phrase 'normal knowledge'. Don't get upset just because you struck out here. There's a big world out there of people who won't immediately see through your posts.
Good luck!
lulz.. whatever mate. get offended, why exactly should you care what others do? lol.. Perhaps you need to be in a mental institution.
Kindly fuck off.
Regardless of whether you are a troll or not, that kind of comment is not welcome here.
OK, so normal people care what others do? normal people DON'T only concern themselves with their own lives :yes:
I'm going to close his account and this thread because as before, it's clear TheSite isn't the best place for him to be able to make any progress.