listen to your heart or listen to your head

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• Former Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

  November 2013

  head.
  
  Seriosuly dude, just go back to her and see what it gets you. Spoiler alert: The same shit all over again. What good do these little surveys for you if you don't heed the advice anyway. Block her from fb, and delete her number, ignore her and get over it. Learn to be content on your own, that would be my top priority right now.

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• Former Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

  November 2013

  Don't get back with her. You said your relationship was rubbish. You were arguing all the time, she was controlling, you weren't happy. Don't just purposely walk back into a relationship like that. You know it's not good, that's why you left her.

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• Former Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

  December 2013

  Hi mclovin69,
  
  Break ups can be so hard and confusing- and it takes time to heal, so try not to be too hard on yourself *hug*
  
  Generally consciously ending relationships mean we use our heads - which means we used the logic that is supported by factual events showing it probably won't work - or that the hurt is not worth it. Does this sound correct to you when your relationship ended?
  
  So whenever you doubt the decision it's usually with your heart. Try and let your head thinking come back at this point. Making a list on a piece of paper stating all the reasons why it ended, and what this person did that could have hurt you on certain occasions, could help. And you can always look back at the list whenever your heart is trying to have a change of mind.
  
  If you still feel so unsure, making a list of pros and cons for getting back together could help - this will include both heart and head matters!
  
  Let us know how you get on *hug*

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