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Can't work out if she's lying about pregnancy?
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I was seeing a girl for a week before we had sex. After this she started becoming really obsessive with me, constantly texting and ringing me and asking to come see me every night. It was a real turn off so I told her I needed space but she didnt stop. . At this stage I ended it, and she kept giving me long texts saying how she needs me and thinks the world of me etc. I ignored this, but then the other day she told me I gave her chlamydia which I was shocked by but I have a clinic appt tomorrow but then a few hours later she said she was pregnant and I'm "the only possible daddy". She has an implant so how can this be possible, not to mention the fact she has been out drinking etc. I still haven't replied to her texts yet she's still trying to text and ring.. Is she a psycho or what?!
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I f***ing hate it when girls do this it just messing with your head and its not nice for people who have lost their baby or not get pregnant
I think we can all empathise with the somewhat confused state you might be in with all these mixed signals. There have already been some valid points and I'd agree that whilst it might all seem like a ploy to get you back it's good to hear that you've still scheduled an appointment at the clinic to get tested - how did that go?
Also, how do you feel about possibly asking her to take a test in your presence? You might need to be careful if you do consider this option as it's unclear how she'd react...
Stay safe dude and keep us informed on how things progress.
It turns out she was infact lying about the pregnancy. She had confided in a friend about lying, who in turn secretly mailed me over facebook to inform me because she felt bad.
I also went to the clinic and got tested, and found out i didnt even have clamydia so she lied about that too. Basically being the decent person I thought I have to tell the girl i was currently seeing to get herself checked out for no reason, and she fell out with me and hasnt spoke to me since, which i'm still gutted about :banghead:
Live and learn i guess.