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Boyfriend has just dropped a bombshell
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My relationship has just ended because my boyfriend dropped the bomb that he's coming out as transgender and will be getting gender reassignment. I just don't know what to do, just last weekend we had a lovely weekend away and we were so happy, there was no indication at all. I just feel so lost right now and have no idea who to turn to, a relationship ending is bad enough but this is just a whole other level. I don't know how to deal with this, can anyone help me?
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I'm so sorry to hear this ballerina. Big hugs *hug*
I don't think anything can help you feel better but do you have any friends or family that you could talk about this with? Or maybe just make plans that can distract you for a little bit? I found that going out with my family when I broke up with my ex helped a bit.
I know they're different circumstances to my break up but you will get through this. I don't think he wanted to hurt you.. he must have been feeling confused himself. You'll come out of this an even stronger person and we're here for you. More hugs *hug*
Fuck off, how dare you
Ignore the annoying spam, the guy clearly has nothing better to do.
How are you doing today? Big hugs *hug*
I understand that the circumstances must be a lot more difficult as you both clearly do care a lot about each other.
I think what is good though is that you can be really good close friends? I understand at the moment that might be hard just thinking of him as a friend but I assume it's better than not having him in your life at all.
Hopefully all of this will get easier soon. keep posting.
I will repeat that you're strong and you will get trough this. Let yourself work through these emotions and take as long as you need. Be kind to yourself.
We will listen to whatever you want to say *hug*
*hug*
I think if someone hasn't been in that situation, they will not understand it - but hopefully they would let you have the time if you needed it.
Sending lots of *hug*
A talk sounds good, I hope you're feeling okay about it.
I've moved it across