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girlfriend and friends and family problem
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Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 8 months and we have been fighting a lot and we have been fighting for the past month or so are last fight was a big serious 1 and my friends and family are now telling me not to go back with her it wasnt really her fault it was mostly mine the fight started but now my friends and family are telling me not to go back with her
I love her and I can of do wanna go back with her again but I dont want to keep fighting
I just cant make up my mind if I sure give it another chance again or to listen to my family and not go back with her again
I love her and I can of do wanna go back with her again but I dont want to keep fighting
I just cant make up my mind if I sure give it another chance again or to listen to my family and not go back with her again
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Personally I don't think it's worth it (also depends what you are fighting about), but I guess there is not much to lose.
I know what that's like and I have just broke up with him after we were together for 3 years. We were always arguing and I gave him chance after chance after chance. Honestly, I would listen to your family. And it's never good if you're partner and family don't get on..
your decision though. good luck.
I dont want to keep doing that I love her and I do wanna be with her I dont no why I wanna be with her shes cut up my clothes and wallet my family doesnt lime her cause we're of and on my friends say ifyou wanna go back with go but your always going to be fighting if I do go back with her I know everyone will hate me for it last fight we had I got so angering I punch the wall
She shouldn't be cutting up your clothes at all and she shouldn't be making you so angry that you want to punch the wall.
Believe me, your best option is to leave her. I know you don't want to.. people on here told me, when we were together, that I should have left my partner and I didn't listen because I loved him and it got worse. I wish I had listened and I wish it hadn't ended the way it did.
Your friends and family aren't going to hate you at all, they care about you and will be there for you whatever you decide. As are we *hug*
I seriously thinking about what im going to do and to be honest im thinking of goin back with her but if I do go back with her I dont want fights and I want everyone to not fall out with me cause im back with her
I think deep down you know that there will still be fights... have you ever tried to talk to her about things? And told her you want the fighting to stop?
I like I said, your friends and family clearly care so wouldn't just fall out with you. They're probably just worried.
Are you happy?
She thinks im going to be looking at their pictures so she got jealous
Thanks for your help :-)
Are there any positives to this relationship? It doesn't sound like there is.
But I think she seems to think I have my female friends for me to look at there pictures ive told her before im known them in person and ive added them cause they are friends but she says if you dont talk to them on facebook y do I have them on it
The positives are
I love her
I love being with her
When it works its great
She gorgeous she might not think it but I tell her she is
Shes fun
She funny
She makes me laugh
Her kids make me laugh
I love going out with her on nights out
Shes likes the same stuff as me
But she always has something to moan about its like she trys to find something so she can have a go at me I really do love her just I dont no if its best to try and move on cause she cant deal with me having female friends on my Facebook my friends have told me her trying to delete girls who look nicer than her is jealousy and she is trying to control me
I know exactly how you feel. You clearly love her and you want to be with her, and you can't see being without her. But can you see that telling you who you can and can't have as friends is controlling? She should trust you when you say you don't look at other women, but clearly she doesn't trust you and what's a relationship without trust?
Like I said I know how you feel and that being without her seems impossible but one day this relationship will end..
Deep down you must know it's not right.