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Why flatline?
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I had a one night stand with this guy who i had bumped into a few times but always put off. Anyway he saw me in work last november and started messaging me again ii was wary and in march of this year i finally popped up to see him.
Anyway he was great first couple of wks but then he went flat line on me and i dont know why other than he does a lot of drugs and i mentioned his parents lived close to my sis.
After that he stopped liking stuf on fb stopped texting me as much nada and when i asked him he just said due to his mental illness (hed been off work for 2 months) he wasnt up for a relationship right now
what am i to think with him going so cold
Anyway he was great first couple of wks but then he went flat line on me and i dont know why other than he does a lot of drugs and i mentioned his parents lived close to my sis.
After that he stopped liking stuf on fb stopped texting me as much nada and when i asked him he just said due to his mental illness (hed been off work for 2 months) he wasnt up for a relationship right now
what am i to think with him going so cold
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Yes I just feel what have I don't wrong
If it is, then it's best to stick to one thread to avoid confusion
Let me know which one you'd prefer to keep open...
Nothing. Bipolar can be very difficult to deal with and relationships can be difficult.
He's just not ready for one. As he's told you. Let it go.
lol he said he just didnt want to lead me on but my mates think its a cop out! But why see so interested then nothing! It was weird
The one time I've got involved with someone with bipolar, the guy used to completely disappear for days at a time. When it ended he didn't speak to me for two weeks then said he'd found someone else.
Just chalk it up to experience and leave it at that.
People are like that, whether theyve got bipolar or not. You can be getting on great then they change their mind or something happens in their life. He doesnt want a relationship so stop obsessing and move on,