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Sexism is alive and well (unfortunately)
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Recently discovered @everydaysexism on twitter. Anyone else seen it?
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It is quite sad / depressing to read through though. As a personal note I have to find that compromise between sticking my head in the sand to the big bad world, and being overwhelmed by the unprecedented vision of the worst parts of humanity the internet gives you.
As someone said recently on a video of a hit and run I saw: Humanity is not the one shitty cunt who hurts people and runs away. It's the crowd of people who instantly ran to help. I mean this only as a commentary of the internets ability to offer a laser focus on the shitty bits of humanity that can make us feel that it's the norm everywhere.
On the one hand, some of the stuff they post is pretty bad.
On the other, I've never seen such joyless whingeing in all my life.
I can well believe that the things reported definitely happened. I've seen similar things with my own eyes, I've seen people on here say it is ok to grope women in nightclubs because they like it really. It happens where these men know there won't be any repercussions on their behaviour; that's why they pick on schoolgirls, or those who look shy, or they do things in nightclubs or on the tube where they're anonymous.
But it isn't even that that annoys me. I hate the whole gender-specific toys idea. Dr Magnanti posted an excellent flowchart recently about that:
But I think the Everyday Sexism thing loses some of its power when they get riled about every sexist joke ever made by anyone, ever.
These are two true facts with which I wholeheartedly agree.
http://www.postsecretcommunity.com/chat/viewtopic.php?t=369883
Haha love the flow chart. Pinched this from you on facebook because it's such a good read http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2010/03/25/predator-theory/. Blaming too much alcohol needs to stop being shrugged off as a legitimate excuse to fall back on.
and those jokes circulating via email are exclusively or even mostly about women and sent by men? I think not.
meanwhile, this is the sort of humour daytime TV affords...
Dr Magnanti must be a fool if he thinks sex differences don't extend beyond genitalia. Tabula Rasa is essentially what you're arguing here, an utterly ridiculous idea completely refuted by decades of research.
of course sexism exists. BOTH ways....
an example of what can be expected when the problem of male suicide is discussed outwith a neo-marxist framework that doesn't reinforce feminist ideology...
we also have the perpetual lies about the 'pay gap' as evidence of 'patriarchy' and 'male privilege' despite piles of studies showing this to have nothing to do with discrimination but misleading statistics (such as comparing men who work full-time with women who work full-time and part-time) and individual choice...
the framing of domestic violence as almost exclusively male-on-female when the actual stats indicate parity, with lesbian relationships consistently shown to be the most violent...
the soft treatment (usually avoiding jailtime) for women who make false rape claims and more lenient sentencing for female criminals generally...
I could go on, but the narrative of men as the oppressor class and women as the victim class is too deeply entrenched and self-serving for many of you to consider alternative perspectives.