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Friends with benefits
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Me and the guy I've been with since oct have just split up and we said we would stay friends, he's now asked if we can be friends with benefits! I'm just wondering if this works with exs if people put rules in place (I've never been in this situation before) he says he still wants to be with me but too much has happened! I want to be with him so would this be a mistake?
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You want to be with him.
On no level does this work and tbh he is a d***head just for suggesting it
Which is all well and good but messy with an ex.
I just don't think its possible to go from having a long term relationship to being friends.
I'm really good friends with my ex-boyfriend now, we split up in 2011 and neither of us wants to get back together.
I think it depends on the circumstances. I was friends with my ex-bf for a couple of years before we got together so that probably helped.