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i dont no what to do
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last night during oral with my hubby i said god it takes you ages to cum not in a bad way but he taken it wrong and is really upset with me saying every time we make love that thought will be there please advise how i can show my true love i didnt mean it in a bad way please i feel im loosing him
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I think the best thing to do would be to drop it for now. Try and relax and make him a happy environment to be in at home and let him get over the initial hurt he seems to be feeling. Then at a time you are free to talk fully and are both relaxed, broach the subject and explain what you actually meant and that it wasn't intended to offend him. Explain it wasn't that you don't enjoy it, it was just a silly comment that probably shouldn't have slipped out.
I am sure this will blow over soon enough. It is worth addressing how he reacted too though and the comments he made about you in return, about selfishness, as that is not a nice thing to say and it needs dealing with if he honestly feels that is the case and is not just lashing out to hurt you, like he feels he was hurt.