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rollercoaster relationship please help!
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my relationship is absolutely amazing a lot of the time, we both like doing the same things and have a lot of fun and both care about each other a lot, he is very thoughtful and loving.
But he has a lot of insecurity and self esteem issues, i feel controlled by him and hes asked me to cut contact with friends, banned me from smoking, gets angry when i go out with my friends or dont 'pay him enough attention' the last straw was i found out he had gone through my texts on my phone
I feel like i want to break up- but then things are very good sometimes so what if I regret it afterwards? I worry i have commitment issues and am looking for a reason to leave, but then i also think i have good reasons to be unhappy. Im just really confused and i need some advice if anyone could help..
thank youx
But he has a lot of insecurity and self esteem issues, i feel controlled by him and hes asked me to cut contact with friends, banned me from smoking, gets angry when i go out with my friends or dont 'pay him enough attention' the last straw was i found out he had gone through my texts on my phone
I feel like i want to break up- but then things are very good sometimes so what if I regret it afterwards? I worry i have commitment issues and am looking for a reason to leave, but then i also think i have good reasons to be unhappy. Im just really confused and i need some advice if anyone could help..
thank youx
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I'd suggest that when he does the following:
They are things you should not have to put up with in any way, shape or form.