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Dont feel good in myself
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Hi I need some serious advice on something its not the best situation but ive got feelings for this guy and want to know what you guys think! I met this guy back in feb we exchanged numbers met up a couple of times and ended up having sex.
We had sex couple of other times after this when i found out he had a gf and was living with another. I contacted his then gf of 4 years we became mates for a bit but ended not good as he tried it on again and when i told her she didn't believe me and we fell out.
Anyway i talked to him a month ago and he said they were having problems a couple of wks later he text me saying he was single and asked to meet up. I arranged to meet up twice he didn't meet up and when I couldn't meet him on the sat i didn't have contact for a day so text him a few times where I had a text off him saying leave him alone and to delete his no
My mate confronted him he said he was only after one thing never was single and wasn't interested in me. He's gone bk to this other woman and I feel not good in one self
We had sex couple of other times after this when i found out he had a gf and was living with another. I contacted his then gf of 4 years we became mates for a bit but ended not good as he tried it on again and when i told her she didn't believe me and we fell out.
Anyway i talked to him a month ago and he said they were having problems a couple of wks later he text me saying he was single and asked to meet up. I arranged to meet up twice he didn't meet up and when I couldn't meet him on the sat i didn't have contact for a day so text him a few times where I had a text off him saying leave him alone and to delete his no
My mate confronted him he said he was only after one thing never was single and wasn't interested in me. He's gone bk to this other woman and I feel not good in one self
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I would honestly say that you do not even know this guy long enough for you two to even form a relationship together, and having sex with him was a bad idea to be frank with you because that just increased how you feel for him and you shouldnt to by those feelings that sex brings afterwards...
In short to make this easy for you, you both need to have a real understanding of each other and acceptance of all they are as a person and from what you have said above that is far from it...
It was also a bad move making friends with his GF, why would you do that, it was destined for end up bad...
Just take some time off for yourself and try understand yourself and do not seem needed in term of there are so many guys are there do not stick with this one when he is clearly not good for anyone...
I am here if you want to ask me anything x
Hi thanks for the support! Just feel crappie with fact he's gone off with this woman and fact he made out he was single when he wasnt
What u trying to say regarding this guy
As firey firenze says, there's been plenty of advice given to you about this. it's up to you to take it.
You mean he doesmt care about any woman and just using them
What bout this woman he's with she's extremely overweight ugly and twice his age
I'm sure she is, but he's with her and not with you. So you'll just have to suck it up won't you.