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Playing it cool?
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I've just spent the most amazing 24hrs with a young man. We've been messaging for about three weeks from a dating website, phone calls, texts etc. Finally met yesterday and that spark we had via messages was definitely there in person. I've not felt that comfortable with a man for a long time.
I'm feeling all giddy and can't wait to see him again but don't want to overwhelm him with keen-ness! Argh it's hard not to get a little bit carried away...I feel like I am 14, not 24. Oh I really hope he likes me as much.
I'm feeling all giddy and can't wait to see him again but don't want to overwhelm him with keen-ness! Argh it's hard not to get a little bit carried away...I feel like I am 14, not 24. Oh I really hope he likes me as much.
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I don't really believe in playing games so don't think you have to wait days to message him again. Just don't tell him you're madly in love or hearing wedding bells and you'll be fine.
But it kinda is human nature to want things you're not sure you can have more than those you know you can... I hate waiting to answer messages but, as a rule, I'm quite happy when I have a think about my replies before sending them....