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does 1st time hurt if hymn is already broken
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Sometimes I wonder if I still have my hymn, but I'm not entirely sure... and I've never had sex, but if it isnt, I was wondering if having sex for the first time would feel different and special.
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Your hymen can be broken by doing stuff like horse riding and wearing tampons so no, being a virgin doesn't mean your hymen is still intact.
It depends on the person. My first time hurt a bit more than the times after, but I had no blood. Some people bleed a lot, some people don't bleed or have pain or feel any different.
It will be special because it's a new experience, not because you've broken a tiny piece of skin.
Incidentally, don't put too much hype on your first time being special. Mine was on a beanbag, with someone else's boyfriend, with "Stacy's mooooooooooom has got it goin' on..." on the tv.
Who says romance is dead?
Agree wit the point though, my first wasn't anything special in terms of mood, romance etc. IIRC it was in a barn with a friend...
Definitely not one of my proudest moments :yeees:.
Mine had already been broken for a little while before i first had sex, maybe up to a year before, i dont remember. It hurt only a little and i had a teeny bit of spotting after but that was it.
If yours is already broken, it doesnt mean anything. It doesnt mean you're not a virgin, and it doesnt mean your first time wont be special. Like Franki said, what makes it special is who you do it with and why, not because youve broken some skin or not
it WILL be special because its going to be with the person that you love and loves you back. it has nothing to do with braking the hymen or it hurting but nothing that you saved youself for him
There. I said it.
What you mean, is that it didn't hurt you.
It can and does hurt.
Agreed
2. It will not be special
3. You won't enjoy it.
4. You'll feel awkard and embarassed.
All that's normal.
But the second/third time you have sex, you'll fucking love it.
Lots of great advice from others so I'm going to keep this brief, just wanted to let you know about some useful articles here on TheSite for you:
Being a virgin
Losing your virginity
None of that is really true for everyone. I didn't really enjoy sex properly (without any pain or discomfort) for quite a while after my first time.
But it doesn't hurt for everyone. For some people it'll be special regardless and they will enjoy it.