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My bf wants me to wear this babydoll!
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Last night, my bf gave me a babydoll dress, and want me to wear it. (blash to wear it in front of others actually)He just bought it for me intentionally. I asked him why. He said i am not sexy enough and I need some decorations for sex and life. He has no interest in a tomboy. So he bought it for me. What he did is rediculous for me. I am so depressed. What do u think about it? Is it sexy? Should i wear it? Anyway, I don't think a sexy lingerie could change anything. How should i solve this problem?
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:yes: removed the link as the url wasn't obvious and it's more about how you feel than what it looks like.
Sexy lingerie is for you, to make you feel sexy about yourself, for yourself, and no one else. If you want to show it off to someone else thats totally your choice!
I'm not going to tell you what to do with your relationship, but I think you both need to have a discussion about this.
It seems, no matter the request, your boyfriend has hurt your feelings and made you feel depressed because of his actions. Is this something you can talk to him about? There is no reason why you should do something you don't want to.
Sometimes unfair sexual demands are asked by partners and it is completely up to you whether you want to do it or not.
You say; Perhaps thinking whether there is in fact anything you can do to solve this problem - unless he changes his behaviour - the question is whether this relationship is worth you feeling this way?
Do let us know how you get on *hug*