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Flatmates and going out
How can I tell my flatmates I dont want to go out clubbing all the time without seeming unsociable?! I, for a few reasons, dont enjoy it that much. I dont have the money to go out for a start. Secondly I'm not a fan of alcohol after having an abusive partner when he was drunk. I get quite panicked by the confinement of a club and end up usually having a miserable night. I'm away into second year at uni and I spent all of last year with my current flatmates so they do know me a little. I just dont want to come across as being unsociable or strange. Is it bad I'd rather spend my day in the gym or swimming and have quiet nights in?