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Boys...are they all the same??!!!
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hey guys!! ive been texting this boy recently but he has a bit of a bad rep...ok...maybe a heck of a bad rep!! he slept around when he was younger and didnt treat those girls with any respect..he just kicked them out after he had sex with them!:p i met him out in a night club this summer and weve been texting since then .. like he tells me he's "changed "... that hes not the stupid person he was back then.I really want to believe him and stuff...but im finding it impossible to! i think he's only interested in me just so that he can have a relationship because he told me that he's looking for a relationship..he's sick of sleeping around with people. Normally if this was anyone else id have no problem giving them the boot...but i really like this boy...like he's known around the town for being really good looking!! But he's always lying to me...about his age..that he's still in school...and he started going out with this girl when we were still texting, because i never met up with him. The thing is, im different to him...im really shy and im always afraid to meet up with boys. Im just looking for advice as regards this situation... am i stupid to be putting up with him,,,and how can i get over my nerves as im starting college in a week!!! thanks!!:)
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I guess the fact that this lad has been lying to you should sound alarm bells, i think anyone would be a little worried about having a relationship with someone with a reputation for sleeping around but of course people do change and although there is the chance you could get hurt at least you are going into this with your eyes open.
Lifes to short to not take chances but only you really know how you feel and if you are strong enough to deal with what might happen.
Good luck
Joking. Mostly.
Your not stupid for putting up with him. Because you like him so much you its only natural you'd want to think the best of him. But don't be too trusting. Good luck xx
Oh, and he went out with someone else because you wouldnt meet him? Just, no
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Walk away. Sounds like trouble and i think you'll only get hurt in the long run.
Also you know he's lying to you already. In my experience (and this goes for friends, family too) people either have difficulty lying, or they don't. Those who lie easily are likely to continue to lie easily. It will never protect you 100% but you should steer well clear of anyone you know is repeatedly lying to you.