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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru

iam in a relationship with my boyfreind do i have a choose weather i want to do things i dont want to and do i say NO

:(

PLEASE reply and help me

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You don't and shouldn't have to do anything that you don't want to do.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hey

    thanks for that. i nurvaus beause i seeing him on satarday and iam scared to say no something i dont want to do just incause he goes off in a mood
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If he gets in a mood with you because you said no to something you dont want to do (which is absolutely the right thing to do) then he cant care very much about you, or what you think
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hi

    sorry i feel asleep on the sofa thats why i dint reply straght away.

    ok. can i ask someone somethng
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yep, you can ask anything here or ask a private question to an advisor

    http://www.thesite.org/community/askthesite/askaquestion

    I have before and theyre really good
  • *Holly**Holly* Moderator Posts: 140 Settling in
    Hi smily3209 and welcome to TheSite :wave:

    As others have said, you should never do something sexually that you don't want to do. Although, in the moment, it can be quite hard to stand up for yourself.

    To help people like you with this sort of issue, we've got this article:
    How to say no to sex
    I really suggest you read it as there's loads of helpful info in there.

    It might also be worth reading this too - Am I ready for sex?

    It's great that Lexi pointed you towards our AskTheSite service too. If you follow her link, you can ask ANY question about ANYTHING, completely confidentially and an expert will reply within 3 working days. Or you can keep posting here if you'd like. You will always be welcome. :yes:

    I hope I've not bombarded you with too much information. Good luck on Satruday and feel free to let us know how you got on.

    Holly
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanks hun can i ask u something holly
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hm

    tell him what you are comfortable with and he should understand, and if not, loose him
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ooohhh

    ok. iam scared to say it
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't be scared to say it, if he goes off in a mood then he is quite clearly a dick and not worth your time. If you aren't ready don't be afraid to say.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok thanks
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    still dont know how to trell him


  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you don't want to have sex. You tell him no. Though frankly from your recent threads it's a bit late. I'm not sure what you're after anymore.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    whats got to do with it
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What?
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