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My Mum

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships

Hi.
I am not alould to see my Mum at all. I want to but i dont after what happened to me when i was little. i do beause she my mum at the end end of the day and i want to go and find her but i dont want to beause i feel like iam going to get cort finding her. i feel really lonley and scared beause i dont want to talk about it at the home or at collage. what do i do.

please relply xxx

Heather
Old Mad
:nervous:

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Please help :(

    please reply to me :(
    need help. dont want to be on my own its horrable not being on my own. plesase tell me that simeone care about whats going on for me and want to help
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Who won't allow you to see her? How old are you? If you're 16+ you can have some control of your own affairs even if you are in care and subject to a court order.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hi

    sosial serives wont let me at all and i think its stubed 18
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It might be worth talking to social services about whether you could meet your mum if someone goes with you. Or maybe you could ask whether you can write to her a few times first. I don't think it would be a good idea to try to find her on your own if she's mistreated you in some way in the past. It sounds like a difficult situation to be in, and I hope you manage to work something out. Take care and keep posting :wave:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hi

    they got nothing to do with me anymore so i dont know what to do

    help me please dont want to be like tyhis anymore
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Three questions.
    How old are you?
    Where do you live?
    Who do you live with?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi

    18

    in a shared comerdaison
    7 other people
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Right, then you're an adult. If you want to talk to your mum, then you have the right to do so.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Plus you have a right to access your social services records, in which there may be contact information for your mother.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Is it that you don't know who/where she is?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no i dont know where she is at all.

    i going to try tro see weather iam able to see her :(

    iam scared and nurvurs is that nature
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would think that is is natural to be scared and nervous about this :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    iam. dont know what to do

    help?????????/?
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