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relationship with my boyfreind
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iam in a relationship with my boyfreind do i have a choose weather i want to do things i dont want to and do i say NO
PLEASE reply and help me
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thanks for that. i nurvaus beause i seeing him on satarday and iam scared to say no something i dont want to do just incause he goes off in a mood
sorry i feel asleep on the sofa thats why i dint reply straght away.
ok. can i ask someone somethng
http://www.thesite.org/community/askthesite/askaquestion
I have before and theyre really good
As others have said, you should never do something sexually that you don't want to do. Although, in the moment, it can be quite hard to stand up for yourself.
To help people like you with this sort of issue, we've got this article:
How to say no to sex
I really suggest you read it as there's loads of helpful info in there.
It might also be worth reading this too - Am I ready for sex?
It's great that Lexi pointed you towards our AskTheSite service too. If you follow her link, you can ask ANY question about ANYTHING, completely confidentially and an expert will reply within 3 working days. Or you can keep posting here if you'd like. You will always be welcome. :yes:
I hope I've not bombarded you with too much information. Good luck on Satruday and feel free to let us know how you got on.
Holly
tell him what you are comfortable with and he should understand, and if not, loose him
ok. iam scared to say it