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Telling my boss i'm leaving
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So after everything thats happened I have 2 options now. I can go for the completely new coffee shop job, or my old manager had agreed to let me go over to her shop but she can only give me 3 days a week for now. Im leaning towards going over the other store, even though its less hours.
The thing now is how do i tell my boss? Im not good with confrontation at all, and i dont want her to be angry with me. If i was going for the new job it would be fine but how do i tell her 'sorry but im going to the other shop'. Shes also going to ask why and i cant tell her 'its because i hate you, and being here with you is stressing me out'. What do i say?
The thing now is how do i tell my boss? Im not good with confrontation at all, and i dont want her to be angry with me. If i was going for the new job it would be fine but how do i tell her 'sorry but im going to the other shop'. Shes also going to ask why and i cant tell her 'its because i hate you, and being here with you is stressing me out'. What do i say?
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I rang my boss and she flipped out at me, telling me i cant leave and that shes talking to the regional manager, leaving me in floods of tears.
Well more fool her because the boss said I can leave, and now its just a case of deciding on a suitable period of time for me to stay. I dont know how long but hopefully not too much, maybe a couple of weeks.
Its going to be awkward as hell at work tomoro and we're going to be on our own for an hour and a half until the next person comes in so i hope its busy so it keeps us both preoocupied. At least i know im getting out soon!
Right, new update!
I have been informed that for next weeks rota starting friday i am not on it which means i am free to go over to the other store.
The only thing is now im facing unbelivable guilt at leaving. Not for the boss but for the rest of the team who work there. We are so so close and i almost feel like i am abandoning them and leaving them with this horrible woman.
I know that they are all old enough and more than capable of deciding they dont like it and doing something about it i.e, leaving, putting in complaint etc, and in the end i was the one who got my finger out and changed my situation but still
I dont want anyone to hate me for abandoning them, and they all say they dont and i should do what makes me happy in the end. Im going to miss them all so much
Im feeling a mixture of everything possible, happy and excited but also scared and nervous, sad at leaving everyone behind I hope this is all worth it