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What is considered normal sexual acts?
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Hi there!
I've been dumped a couple of times not long into the relationship because I've been told I'm a sexual freek! I like BDSM, anal, talking dirty, I have leather and food fetishes, and I like dominating and doing guys up the bum! I can understand some men might not be into the last one, but all the guys I've been with just want very vanilla sex, where as I want lots of other stuff too! Am I a sexual freek or are these things ok?
Thanks
Darkshines
I've been dumped a couple of times not long into the relationship because I've been told I'm a sexual freek! I like BDSM, anal, talking dirty, I have leather and food fetishes, and I like dominating and doing guys up the bum! I can understand some men might not be into the last one, but all the guys I've been with just want very vanilla sex, where as I want lots of other stuff too! Am I a sexual freek or are these things ok?
Thanks
Darkshines
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Maybe just wait a bit longer next time and dont spring it all on him all at once and expect him to be ok with it
I would't be too sure about that. I'll PM you with some info.
Welcome to the boards :wave:
Sorry to hear you feel rejected once you share your sexual styles to boyfriends. It's not nice to open up about something and for it not to be received well. There is no such thing as "normal" so try not to feel like a "freak". Everyone has their own preferences!
Perhaps it could be as mentioned by Lexi99;
Or perhaps it's someone particular that would be interested in all these aspects. Have a look at our articles on mismatched sex drives and Fetishes, in which the following quote is from;
Hope this helps *hug*